Literally have to play ranked.

So apparently the only game mode that it is ok NOT to troll in is ranked. Since I am constantly being told that in norms, the objective is not to win. I'm so sick of the excuse "If you want to win play ranked" "It's normals who cares". Meanwhile the 1-9 adc with 98 cs at 23 minutes is top side at the tier 1 tower while the entire enemy team is in base ending. Unfortunately pointing out basic game fundamentals is also somehow toxic. "Hey try and sit under tower since you are losing lane, its alright to lose lane as long as you don't feed" meanwhile they are shoving tower with no wards out and already a 0-7 bot lane. But it's ok since its not ranked. So for now on I will play ranked. I'm interested to see how many people find it ok to not care about winning, since its norms, and also how many hate that excuse?