How aggressive is too aggressive for a support?
I prefer playing supports to any other role and I main Zyra. I do really well at the beginning of the game by setting off seeds to stall the minion line until my adc can kill them. Then we can push to the enemy turret rather easily. However, often my plants will kill minions or I'll be standing a bit back and my auto will kill a minion and my adc will get mad at me. Also, sometimes I can snare and kill the enemy instead of letting them run off, but then my adc doesn't get the kill (even if it was impossible for them to get it) and they yell at me. I don't know if it's because Zyra is a nontraditional support that I play like this, but I feel if I don't play aggressive and push, I lose the lane. If I do play aggressive and push but my adc doesn't, we sometimes lose sometimes win the lane, but my adc blames all of their deaths later in the game on me not giving them every single minion and kill. If we're both aggressive, the lane is an easy, fast win and my team usually always wins.
When I play like this I often get complaints from my whole team saying I'm being too aggressive for a support, but the minute I stop playing like this we start losing. So how much is too aggressive for a support to be played?