Why in my opnion the yellow trinket ruins bot lane

I'm sick of going into games against ap mage supports that build full damage and don't build sightstone for free since they can just ward up all the time with the yellow alternating with the adc.

Yes i try counter early if i see this buy buying the red trinket to try counter but the problem is even if i tell the jungler what is happening that its a free gank as they constantly push because they want to get kills with ap brand and i just swept so its 100% free, they say ok omw then come like almost 2 mins later when either we get poked out of lane/ die/ or it gets rewarded cuz the other laner has theirs back up then they complain at me for wasted time or dying.

i was literally just in a game where the support had the most damage on the other team 2nd most overall but still had the the most kills in the game.

Please explain how i am suppose to deal with this situation early game before it snowballs out of control if the jungler wont cooperate, its bugged me since the start of the trinket system was introduced but ive always held it in because i know i should just get better but this last game was just aggravating.

http://matchhistory.na.leagueoflegends.com/en/#match-details/NA1/2233466180/219618900?tab=overview <--- "support brand" everyone

Thanks to anyone who read my rant, thanks for your time