A little something i discovered for ADC's in lower leagues

I didn't realize this because i was too caught up on winning and winning only. What can i do to reach victory? Well today i discovered something, while i played ADC i prioritized farm WAY too much. I wasn't intelligent enough because i acted in the way my enemy wanted me to act. I'll give you an example, the enemy goes to last shot minion and so do i. The enemy attacks me, i retaliate and continue farming. This made for a really obvious but repetitive laning phase. However, today i was really tilted.. and so i prioritized farm less by chance and i discovered that if the enemy goes for a minion and you ignore your own minion you will catch them off and do huge damage. Now, i know this sounds obvious but hear me out.. what's the difference now? The enemy can't read you anymore. You could move forward to threaten to hit the enemy or could fake hit a minion but instead go and attack the enemy champion. Then, you could force them to go back and not last shot the minion.. and you could farm your own minion. How tf was it i never realized this? I think it was because every damn guide said "For ADC try to farm a lot, farm is huge important" It's important, but making sure your enemy can never return to the game is just as important, especially in lower leagues.