How do I deal with It ?

Look I'm not complaining or whining over how it's "my teams fault !" Or" pls report my team !" No . I will apologize for my mistakes and try to make up for it . I know nobody is perfect and we all make mistakes , I even try and be friendly with the enemy team , but how do I deal with people who instalock? Or having a bad game? (feeding). How can I advise him or her if she or he won't listen to me ? In my last 4 matches I'd call a certain lane and there is an instalocker.