for those who struggle

As a league player, used to struggle so hard with the game and I always looked at myself as the reason. for the longest I really didnt like playing league all too much because it made me feel so frustrated with myself. why wasnt I doing things right? it dawned on me. I cared WAY TOO MUCH about what people told me to do. its one thing to get or give constructive criticism or advice, but I was always being told who to play, what to build, what moves to get and so on so the people telling me these things could benefit. none of the advice ive ever been given by most has been for my knowledge of the game. its always been to how I can better boost everyone else while they leave me to rot. I guess I made this post to talk with people who also feel frustrated with league. the way I overcame it all was finding out what I enjoyed doing, and how I enjoyed playing the game. It is not always about the meta, the new champions, what people say is good or not. No build or advised champion will ever really make you play better. Its all about how you play. everyone who plays this game has to be able to find their comfort zone because you will NEVER play to your potential if you dont try every viable option for you. To any newbies Id say in order for you to enjoy the game you need to find what suits you because you are an individual unique to any other player. For the veterans id say if youre struggling to enjoy league lately then get out of your "Main lane" or what have you and do something different. This game can be so much fun but its up to us to make it that way again. In the end only you can discover what path will lead you to the top. some questions for the discussion: What might be some common frustrations you hold for the game lately? and when did you discover what you enjoyed doing in the game? What Champion/ Lane/ Game mode did that for you? For the new players, what play style or lane sounds interesting to YOU?