I guess you have two problems:
- tough luck. Shit happens.
- you don't snowball your leads enough. In low elo, being fed should be enough to kinda shit on everybody, even if your teammates suck dicks. About that I'm afraid I don't have a lot of things to suggest, like... watch guides, streams, pro games and try to think of everything they're doing, even the simplest ones and understand why they do this and that.
Understanding how the waves of minions work to be able to deny the maximum possible creeps/ when to push out, freeze etc. is excellent knowledge if you wanna get better.
Oh, and an advice.. Please do not care about counterpicks below plat+. You have no need for it whatsoever. Play the champions you enjoy and get better on those. If you are getting good with a champion, you will know every matchup, how you should act, you will have better mechanics on these champs, you know how to trade, to farm, etc. optimally.