Honest Question.

The link above is to a ranked game I played the other day as Graves. The enemy team has extreme freedom of dive potential with J4/Sej/Annie, and in a world where lower elo doesn't understand peel, is there any way to circumvent this? I'm talking every single fight I'd get targeted directly by J4 and Sej, basically isolating me from the fight.

I played another game, this time they had a Vi/J4 and was faced with the same occurrence. I get fed very early during lane and have a spotlight over my head that says "dive here", which is unfortunate considering I didn't have adequate peel. I understand positioning in fights and etc, but what exactly am I supposed to do when, A. I get dove by Vi with little to no help, or B. Get dove by J4 and wind up not being able to kill him in time due to armor stacking?