doesn't it seem like bot almost always feeds?

In almost every loss I have had this season was mostly influenced by a bot lane feeding

not just 1-3 or even something like 1-5 but BIG numbers like 1-13 or 2-14

in my last game bot decided to feed this jhin because I won mid REALLY hard against a katarina and teemo pushed gnar out top lane (jg was occupied trying to save kat)

we lost as soon as jhin went mid

everytime I looked bot they were doing something stupid and varus refused to move when firing his arrows and janna would ult for "zoning"

I'm not saying it's completely their fault (I could have roamed more) but they played a major part at least 70% in our loss, there was proof in that as soon as jhin died we almost won despite it being a 3v4 (bot and supp off farming)

I just feel like bot laners need to understand that when I say "play safe and let us carry" it's not an insult it's just me telling them that the best thing to do would play safe and cs and hopefully make it up in the late game