I'm I just cursed or does URF bring out the worse greifers and inters?

For the past 4 days it seems inevitable to my games to be 3v5. 98% of my games have had the worse case of inters and greifers.. Now i'm no faker and I understand the concept of playing safe... Like for me its just common sense if they kill me once or twice before minute 3 to play safe.. play under tower only push with minions... but in my games 3 minutes in i will have at least one person be 1.10... most of the time its 2 people going with that score. its even worse when you throw the /ff up and people deny it and say " bro its jsut urf who cares" regardless of what gamemode it is.. Some people don't want to waste their time in a loss? Is it just me with this curse? or is it everyone? legit more then 80% have at least 2 intense inting and greifers. its to the point where in pregame lobby I have to warn my teammates to dodge if they want to win be cause i'm so cursed... Honestly as much as I love this gamemode, I feel like it brings out the worst in people because its not "ranked" its a "for fun" gamemode, but NOTHING IS FUN when you have 2 teammates going 2/40 every other game... its too the point where im bout to hang this game up and just start playing apex...