[{quoted}](name=Im A Cracker,realm=NA,application-id=9hBQwnEU,discussion-id=WRdJZUYl,comment-id=0007,timestamp=2017-11-10T00:46:05.006+0000)
As a certified cracker, I think people need to stop being pussies and stop letting words hurt them.
Sticks and stones just break my bones - it takes words to hurt me.
This whole concept of "not letting words hurt you" is only even conceivable if someone totally desensitizes themselves to others and assume their they're only one who matter. That's a ridiculously unhealthy and honestly pretty sociopathic mindset. If implemented, it would overall deprive the person of strong participation in social life. No one respects someone who respects no one.
Even that aside, what's with this modern concept that words don't matter? Words are, I'd argue, the only things that do matter. Unless you have to deal with trauma, force can only affect your body. But words? Words are how we process the world, and how we learn most of the things about it. Words are how we communicate and coordinate. Words are our most important outside resource on our own virtues and flaws, and far more useful than the muddled results of introspection in most cases. Words might not (always) result in physical harm, but they change who we are. In a world devoid of words, you would be utterly unlike who you are now, and everything you hear that has any meaning at all affects your trajectory in some tiny way.
Even if you were to magically discard words without being affected, which I believe is impossible to do entirely, you'd become the sort of person who disregards words, meaning the sort of person who disregards the opinions of others. Again, if held in logical consistency, that's an unhealthy mindset that will leave you isolated and devoid of relationships of any type. Physical harm changes how we function, but words change who we are. Heck, even in cases of physical force, most of the time that comes as part of coercion or hatred of some sort, which all revolves around words and communication. Really only random acts of violence are excluded from that, and even in those, the perpetrator has been shaped at least partially by words into the sort of person who would commit random acts of violence.
And all of that is not to mention that this philosophy of "words can never hurt me" is itself communicated by words. You can't even talk about it without being affected by them.
This is totally unrelated, but using "pussies" as an insult really weirds me out in most cases. Most people who use it are straight men, who... presumably like the organ in question? So why's that an insult for them?
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