I have nothing against reddit but I don't use it because I am much more comfortable with traditional forums. The few times I have tried to use reddit it has always seemed that the first few comments that are insightful or funny always get a ton of up votes and then its just a giant circle jerk of those few posts making it hard for new posts to be read by anyone.
I suppose it is good for times that you don't have a long time to read but those people seem to have less of an impact with their votes because the things they will be reading are the things already voted on just like you said.
I am glad you can change it to recent post style but I feel like if there is a lot of responses I will be missing a ton of posts in either mode.
I don't know, I guess I need to get used to it as well.