Help Me Understand

Zavolk·2/26/2018, 11:54:17 PM·1 votes·535 views

I was given a 10-game chat restriction.

They give me a little paragraph or two about how we need to be more positive and mature then sent me a list of what I said.

Can someone please read what I said and tell me what I did wrong? I was playing a meta-support (Leona) building myself correctly with more assists/kills than deaths. I was warding and helping my team. What did I say that was "toxic" or "nasty" and makes me a bad person to the community?

I was insulted. I was called stupid, a feeder, a troll, an idiot, and so on. I never reacted with an insult or put anyone down.

Was me saying " omfg aatrox :/ " considered toxic when he dived a 1v3 and got 1-shot by the enemy team?

Help me understand what I can do better. It's just not clicking with me.

Thank you! :)

Game 1 Zavolk: gotta stay at the vanguard Zavolk: it's fine we gotz diz boys/girls :D Zavolk: i am insecure AND pathetic ;) Zavolk: we had that :( Zavolk: what addon gives you timers and tells u when they use a summoner spell? Zavolk: drag Zavolk: drag Zavolk: drag Zavolk: we will win this i promise :) Zavolk: dont give up Zavolk: we have drag and more cs Zavolk: we can still win pretty easily Zavolk: yea tbh just farm up top - play defensive - and we will win late game Zavolk: WHY? Zavolk: why? Zavolk: omfg aatrox :/ Zavolk: dude Zavolk: dude Zavolk: lol ok man good luck Zavolk: im done Zavolk: i shouldn't play support at silver mmr normal games Zavolk: cait we won our lane Zavolk: such a shame Zavolk: i was posiitive until ppl started feeding Zavolk: i blame myself - i am setting up plays that ppl just dont see Zavolk: okay gg im done Zavolk: yup Zavolk: im done Zavolk: enjoy your loss Zavolk: no im done Zavolk: im not gonna support kids who haven't even been gold-5 lol Zavolk: ive been trying to hard Zavolk: and nobody is playing Zavolk: why should i keep giving 100% if nobody else is trying? Zavolk: i was 0/0/2 until jungler started feeding bot Zavolk: * 0/4/2 Zavolk: thanks for backing me up - these 4 are legit blaming me for everything - i don't get it Zavolk: i said i hate giving 100% when people don't put in effort Zavolk: gg wp - sorry for the bad game Zavolk: you're kidding me right? Zavolk: okay :) Zavolk: how is dying being toxic? Zavolk: me getting 3 assists is being toxic? Zavolk: yea..... and im the one being "toxic and feeding" lol Zavolk: gg - glad my team mates took turns insulting me and blaming me for everything

23 Comments

LocatedEagle2322/27/2018, 12:01:08 AM2 votes

Honestly, I feel like 4 reports is what got you punished more than anything you said. I despise the idiots that blame one player and focus all their anger to them in chat... Either a premade or they're just stupid, send it to support :P

Edit; Actually Galizien got you with the "im not gonna support kids who haven't even been gold-5 lol" and you were a little pretentious.

Zavolk2/27/2018, 12:37:20 AM2 votes

I agree that me giving up or being "passive aggressive" might be viewed as rude but is it toxic? Is it really as bad as others directly insulting me? My statement I believe holds merit. Why should I give effort at a 100% level if every little mistake is met by a direct insult?

Also yes, it was a normal match and they were a group I believe.

I appreciate everyone taking a moment of their time to answer my question and help me out. I guess I should play it safe and just not talk in this game anymore.

It seems that jokingly "giving up" after being insulted over and over is punished.

Thank you everyone. :)

AeroWaffle2/26/2018, 11:57:43 PM1 votes

I would point the reason behind the punishment to the attitude you had including (and after) the point where you gave up in chat.

MagicFlyingLlama2/27/2018, 12:21:28 AM1 votes

Passive-aggressive bitching is still flaming and distracting to your team.

Zavolk2/27/2018, 2:09:00 AM1 votes

Hokey Dokey <3

Telephone Booth2/28/2018, 5:22:43 AM1 votes

I think it was the absolute loss of morale that you spread into chat. You just gave up. Constant negativity... "I'm done" several times, "I shouldn't support at this mmr" "I'm not gonna support kids who haven't even been gold 5" "enjoy your loss". You basically condescended to your entire team, saying you're the best player there, and they don't even know how to play. Avoid this.