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Flamed for CARRYING!!!

Summonah12369··1 votes·1,135 views

So i was just sitting around in solo queue when someone on my friends list asked me to invite them, so i did and it became a duo queue. We later got into game and i ended up carrying the team on WW (16/1/8), but for some reason i was considered annoying (i have autism and told them), heck even our Lux support (the person whom asked to be invited) threatened to block me, and the Quinn (our adc) also started to do the same thing except she wasn't in our queue or on my friends list, we were just randomly matched up with her, she said she didn't even care that i carried our team to victory and called my condition an ''illness'', I've seen worse toxicity but my God, why would you flame me for helping us WIN. I guess I've seen it all, i have no faith, i lost a friend over carrying, so disrespectful, even if i might've been a little annoying doesn't mean i'm bad for carrying, there's a thing called a personality and everyone has one. So what do you think of them? Or am i the bad one here? I really don't see how i would be the bad one here, i tried to be nice but no they just flame me. I suppose i could also give a link to the results of this match: https://matchhistory.na.leagueoflegends.com/en/#match-details/NA1/2744976809/236058970?tab=overview .

17 Comments

Telephone Booth5 votes

The real issue I see is your interpretation. You carried, and therefore they flamed you? Are you sure there isn't more to the story? You told them you have autism?? Obviously there's more going on here than you simply carrying a game, and them flaming you for it. Why did you tell them your condition? You're leaving out some key details and doing yourself a disservice by oversimplifying things. "I lost a friend over carrying" "why would you flame me for helping us win" ... these statements are disturbing. You clearly lack self awareness if that's what you came away with in this situation. Maybe it's part of your condition, and I sympathize with that, but don't say it was "I carried, they flamed, therefore my carrying is what caused them to flame me".

Summonah123691 votes

Ugh how do i say this, it's not like i can always remember the entire chat log of a single lol game. It's not like i would TRY to do badly, it's not like i want my team to flame me. They stopped responding later on in the game because of the mute, literally wtf do i do. How am i gonna explain this to you, i tried to put all i remember, not everything i thought was important about the game. I don't understand what details you are asking for.

Telephone Booth2 votes

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Ugh how do i say this, it's not like i can always remember the entire chat log of a single lol game. It's not like i would TRY to do badly, it's not like i want my team to flame me. They stopped responding later on in the game because of the mute, literally wtf do i do. How am i gonna explain this to you, i tried to put all i remember, not everything i thought was important about the game. I don't understand what details you are asking for.

Im asking you to really think about why they flamed you and then stop oversimplifying like a simpleton. You didn't get flamed because you carried. You must have said something. There's more to the story than you're letting on. You don't just play great and carry people and they start flaming for no reason. Your premade doesn't threaten to block and mute you just because you played well. I just hate when people blatantly mislead people by picking and choosing details and then wording things in a way that makes them look completely innocent. It just doesn't make sense. You carried, so they flamed you for it. Come on... No one's buying that shit.

Summonah123691 votes

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Im asking you to really think about why they flamed you and then stop oversimplifying like a simpleton. You didn't get flamed because you carried. You must have said something. There's more to the story than you're letting on. You don't just play great and carry people and they start flaming for no reason. Your premade doesn't threaten to block and mute you just because you played well. I just hate when people blatantly mislead people by picking and choosing details and then wording things in a way that makes them look completely innocent. It just doesn't make sense. You carried, so they flamed you for it. Come on... No one's buying that shit.

Ok so perhaps that wasnt exactly the cause, and i dint really mean it that way, i tried to apologize for upsetting them but they just didnt take it very well, even though i was doing well but might of been a bit annoying, they still got mad at me.

Telephone Booth1 votes

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Ok so perhaps that wasnt exactly the cause, and i dint really mean it that way, i tried to apologize for upsetting them but they just didnt take it very well, even though i was doing well but might of been a bit annoying, they still got mad at me.

Okay thank you. Now delete your blatant lie of a thread please. It's just a huge lie. Why just blatantly lie to strangers like this? Either word it honestly, like you were flamed and you don't know why, or delete the lie. (And no I'm not the one downvoting you, especially now that you've finally showed some honesty)

Weathered4 votes

Some people are just willing to pick fights, but often times players will put aside who is "carrying" or doing well to call out those who aren't behaving well. Personally, if someone is carrying my game but is being very toxic I will still report them or call them out to stop.

Summonah123691 votes

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Some people are just willing to pick fights, but often times players will put aside who is "carrying" or doing well to call out those who aren't behaving well. Personally, if someone is carrying my game but is being very toxic I will still report them or call them out to stop.

I wasn't really toxic, though. And i didn´t intend to trigger them that much, but they just wouldn't let it go away and kept on growing it on me.

Weathered3 votes

If you are sure what you were doing really wasn't that bad and people just seemed to be overreacting, then perhaps just ignore the game because the people may just have been in a bad mood and needed someone to outlet that on.

If this continues to happen however, where multiple people point out your behavior, then I would take a step back and make sure how you act is acceptable to others.

Summonah123691 votes

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If you are sure what you were doing really wasn't that bad and people just seemed to be overreacting, then perhaps just ignore the game because the people may just have been in a bad mood and needed someone to outlet that on.

If this continues to happen however, where multiple people point out your behavior, then I would take a step back and make sure how you act is acceptable to others.

This was sort of a one time thing, yes i do not always get flamed for carrying.

Vapor Wave Vibes2 votes

Hate when I somehow end up getting flamed when I'm something like 11/0 and everyone else has a negative score. Just makes me wonder why I'm even leaving spawn.

Summonah123691 votes

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Hate when I somehow end up getting flamed when I'm something like 11/0 and everyone else has a negative score. Just makes me wonder why I'm even leaving spawn.

Yea and it was funny how our support also had the lowest vision score. She still tried to make me look like the bad guy lmao, she wasn't autofilled or anything.

HalcyonDweller2 votes

"Woe is me I'm so gifted!"

Down boy. If you stroke your ego any harder it might explode.

Serious response:

League is a team game, it's not purely mechanical like Street Fighter. If you expect to be able to carry on mechanical skill alone you're going to be sorely disappointed when it doesn't work half the time.

Leading tilted people is a part of carrying, if they weren't tilted they'd be playing much better and you wouldn't be carrying them. It's just something you have to get used to and learn how to deal with. Talking down to people or flaming back at them is NOT the answer. If you can un-tilt them or help them cool off then they will stop flaming and play. But you've got to have the skills to do it right.

zPOOPz2 votes

In my experience, most people have the least reason to flame someone who is carrying with high kda UNLESS that person grew a god-complex and started to talk down to his teammates or flamed low performing teammate(s) first. Not sure if this sounds familiar to you.

I'm content with the fact that some games I will win. Some games I will lose. Personally, I'd rather have pleasant teammates and lose a few games than some high kda being asshole to the rest of the team (not saying this is you at all. I'm generalizing). "Carrying" and "high kda" do not give anyone the right to become toxic with a god-complex.

ShtTeamGoKYS1 votes

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Summonah123691 votes

I was proud, wasn't proud of them for being so toxic towards me though.

Summonah123691 votes

Just showing how these 2 players acted towards me, mid and top were really nice to me though.

Kei1431 votes

people can flame for anything. If you don't like their flames, then mute them.

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