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Flamed for CARRYING!!!

Summonah12369·3/21/2018, 9:48:35 PM·1 votes·1,135 views

So i was just sitting around in solo queue when someone on my friends list asked me to invite them, so i did and it became a duo queue. We later got into game and i ended up carrying the team on WW (16/1/8), but for some reason i was considered annoying (i have autism and told them), heck even our Lux support (the person whom asked to be invited) threatened to block me, and the Quinn (our adc) also started to do the same thing except she wasn't in our queue or on my friends list, we were just randomly matched up with her, she said she didn't even care that i carried our team to victory and called my condition an ''illness'', I've seen worse toxicity but my God, why would you flame me for helping us WIN. I guess I've seen it all, i have no faith, i lost a friend over carrying, so disrespectful, even if i might've been a little annoying doesn't mean i'm bad for carrying, there's a thing called a personality and everyone has one. So what do you think of them? Or am i the bad one here? I really don't see how i would be the bad one here, i tried to be nice but no they just flame me. I suppose i could also give a link to the results of this match: https://matchhistory.na.leagueoflegends.com/en/#match-details/NA1/2744976809/236058970?tab=overview .

17 Comments

Telephone Booth3/21/2018, 11:48:37 PM5 votes

The real issue I see is your interpretation. You carried, and therefore they flamed you? Are you sure there isn't more to the story? You told them you have autism?? Obviously there's more going on here than you simply carrying a game, and them flaming you for it. Why did you tell them your condition? You're leaving out some key details and doing yourself a disservice by oversimplifying things. "I lost a friend over carrying" "why would you flame me for helping us win" ... these statements are disturbing. You clearly lack self awareness if that's what you came away with in this situation. Maybe it's part of your condition, and I sympathize with that, but don't say it was "I carried, they flamed, therefore my carrying is what caused them to flame me".

Weathered3/21/2018, 10:30:42 PM4 votes

Some people are just willing to pick fights, but often times players will put aside who is "carrying" or doing well to call out those who aren't behaving well. Personally, if someone is carrying my game but is being very toxic I will still report them or call them out to stop.

Vapor Wave Vibes3/21/2018, 10:16:11 PM2 votes

Hate when I somehow end up getting flamed when I'm something like 11/0 and everyone else has a negative score. Just makes me wonder why I'm even leaving spawn.

zPOOPz3/21/2018, 11:43:27 PM2 votes

In my experience, most people have the least reason to flame someone who is carrying with high kda UNLESS that person grew a god-complex and started to talk down to his teammates or flamed low performing teammate(s) first. Not sure if this sounds familiar to you.

I'm content with the fact that some games I will win. Some games I will lose. Personally, I'd rather have pleasant teammates and lose a few games than some high kda being asshole to the rest of the team (not saying this is you at all. I'm generalizing). "Carrying" and "high kda" do not give anyone the right to become toxic with a god-complex.

ShtTeamGoKYS3/21/2018, 10:43:27 PM1 votes

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Kei1433/22/2018, 12:29:41 AM1 votes

people can flame for anything. If you don't like their flames, then mute them.