I call out a feeder and say play defensive and he gets mad at me.

supzman··2 votes·1,055 views

Just as the title says, i call out a feeder and when i say something in return to this feeding bastard i get reported and BAM. my account instantly banned permenatly. i cant say how many times this has happend to me to where i get a chat restriction or so forth. but to ban my account because i started off with, play defensive. i get in an argument and its "banned your not welcome here dont ever come back". And im like, really? I love this game and its my favorite game but for me to spend a good 700 something dollars on it. yeah? 700$? never saved up that much for anything. And im the one at fault. its not matchmaking or the fact that i try and have fun and win a game. its the fact that i say stop feeding and get a bit mad? and for riot to send me my chat log? Why dont you make me sound like the bad guy some more right? God i love this game but i hate how this happens.

41 Comments

disregardable7 votes

Yes, it is literally your fault. You can't ruin everyone else's game just because you're not having a good time. If something makes you not want to play, you suck it up and get over it, not spend all game arguing in chat. That's called being a respectful person, and more importantly it's called following the rules. If you don't, you're obviously going to get banned.

supzman2 votes

What makes me mad the most is that its my fault right? A person or people make/s it unfun for the rest of us and if i go ahead and say play defensive and play normals, thats my fault they get mad and salty? Its my fault that i stand up to them?

hh the thinker4 votes

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What makes me mad the most is that its my fault right? A person or people make/s it unfun for the rest of us and if i go ahead and say play defensive and play normals, thats my fault they get mad and salty? Its my fault that i stand up to them?

post your chat logs and people can maybe help explain the problem with how you said it. it's fine saying play safe if that's all you said.

supzman1 votes

I said play safe and atuff at forst but after they kept overextending and whatever not listenting to anyone at the end of the game i was just calling them out

hh the thinker5 votes

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I said play safe and atuff at forst but after they kept overextending and whatever not listenting to anyone at the end of the game i was just calling them out

calling people out, you can do that, but you have to actually trying to help. calling someone out just because you are angry at them isn't going to help and causes problems.

right way:

finding out how they are getting caught, and if it's just from over extending, just letting them know that it's not safe to go that far. if they don't listen, that's out of your control, but at least you know the jungle will be there and you can plan for that maybe.

wrong way:

be insulting and angry towards them (this doesn't help you, doesn't help them, but it does help the other team a bit. calling them names of any kind will not help. telling them they suck or shouldn't play won't help. "stop feeding!" isn't even helping.

basically, be smart about it and clear. if they are rude to you, you can mute and report. if they are feeding willfully, just report after the game. it doesn't help to get angry over it, as you saw the result from that.

supzman1 votes

Doesnt even matter to me anymore, this game was the only thing keeping me sane... This pushes me over the limit...

hh the thinker2 votes

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Doesnt even matter to me anymore, this game was the only thing keeping me sane... This pushes me over the limit...

make another account, but with an improved attitude. that's one option and i know it looks like a very bad choice, but that's up to you.

another choice, find another thing you really enjoy. i can 100% say for sure, that there are enough things in the world, where you can find another thing that you enjoy just as much as league. how you will find that, i can't say. just try new things and keep an open mind.

what you choose is up to you, but i do hope for the best for you.

supzman1 votes

Honestly i hated my life and now im at the max... I dont want to spend another 700 something on a free game for it to be all taken away... Im just giving up on everything...

hh the thinker2 votes

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Honestly i hated my life and now im at the max... I dont want to spend another 700 something on a free game for it to be all taken away... Im just giving up on everything...

what feels hopeless now, won't stay that way. if you truly feel at the lowest point you can go, then the only way is up. trust me when i say that things can improve greatly if you are willing to keep trying.

supzman1 votes

What will improve greatly? The account i lost? All my skins? All my hard earned champions since i dont spend rp on champs? All the games i played? All the friends i cant talk to anymore? Things sure look bright bro

Photos of Ghosts1 votes

Then don't ever take out your credit card in front of the client again? This is a free game.

blkh13 votes

repeat offender, and riot has deemed it is times to see you go. Three strikes, you're out.

Jamaree4 votes

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What makes me mad the most is that its my fault right? A person or people make/s it unfun for the rest of us and if i go ahead and say play defensive and play normals, thats my fault they get mad and salty? Its my fault that i stand up to them?

No it isn't, but even if you were solely defending yourself, there is no way you can get to permaban level by ONLY defending yourself. The system might be dumb, but at that point, there is a problem with you.

supzman1 votes

What makes me mad the most is that its my fault right? A person or people make/s it unfun for the rest of us and if i go ahead and say play defensive and play normals, thats my fault they get mad and salty? Its my fault that i stand up to them? League everybody, dont stand up to trolls or you will get banned permenatly

Bettnachleger7 votes

funny, you had the most deaths in your last game ;-) And just some other of your recent games: 6/10 (most deaths in the team with a Lee) 17/11 (most deaths in the team) 6/11 (most deaths in the team) 6/8 (okay, your whole team died that much ;D) 11/11 (most deaths of the team) 3/11 (most deaths of the team with a Tresh)

I locked in 14 games, in 8 of them you died the most [slayer-pantheon-popcorn]

supzman1 votes

Only time i die the most is when im doing great then someone was/is feeding so then i get focused down hard. But 90% of time its late game when i get all my deaths. I never said i was perfect i just said that i shouldnt be punished for calling out people.

FrankerX6 votes

lets replace "feeder" with "guy who tries to ride a bycicle for the first time"

"stop falling down the bycicle" ... GJ YOU HELPED HIM!!! that "feeding bastard" how you call him will never ever make a mistake again because you told him to stop! you are such a good part of the community!

supzman1 votes

Lets use your analogy sure, so the guy who tries to ride a bike for the first time tries to ride it in a professional bike race? (ranked)

FrankerX1 votes

there is no rule against that even tho it is stupid. still

Bettnachleger3 votes

Beside ranked isn't something that you can call professional, there are at least some requirements to play ranked games: 16 Champs lvl 30 So nobody ride the bike for the first time ...

And if you play ranked and you suck, you will drop down to bronze. That's how a ladder works ....

supzman1 votes

Yeah but if your good and feeders hold you back it takes a toll on you after a while of trying and trying

Photos of Ghosts4 votes
  1. *you're
  2. Holding back doesn't exist, your teams will always be balanced around your MMR from the previous hundreds of games. If your level is consistently a step ahead of your MMR, you'll climb because you'll be on average the best of both teams and as such you'll impact the game towards victory for your team. Else, you act like you're expected = you play as well/badly as the average in the game = you belong there.
  3. There is a punishment for being bad. It's called losing.
Bettnachleger1 votes

The enemy team should get more feeder than your team, in case you're on a higher skill level than the average player on your MMR. I mean, at least the guy who has to play against you in lane should feed ... (because you're that good ;D) And the enemy has still 1 more slot than your team for a potential feeder (because you're that good and that's the case why you never feed).

supzman1 votes

The people i usually lane aganst dont feed too hard, maybe like 3 deaths early and one kill. But they try and get back into the game even though they are behind on exp and cs and they dont feed other lanes also.

Jamaree3 votes

They should be in the email for the account linked to this one.

Fun fact: Even if you were to only defend yourselves from trolls and flamers and ragers, the system wouldn't flag you because you wouldn't get enough reports to actually get hit on the radar.

AraMoOse3 votes

I think I have just thought of the PERFECT analogy to explain this :

Telling a person who just died to "stop feeding" is like driving past a driver that just got into an accident and screaming "Watch where you're going!"

supzman1 votes

Its funny because your right, because they will watch out where they are going. Because there are real painful things that can happen in car accidents. But saying stop feeding will leave the person not caring "because its just a game" even if it was ranked like how i was in

Goofle2 votes

After reading those boards, you must have already realized that most people don't actually play League of Legends but another game called "Don't bully me or I tell the teacher". Sucks that you had to spend so much money before realizing what's going on. I mean, why spend so much on LoL anyway? The game has been the same for 5 years now. Not even minor improvements. We're still waiting for that replay mode that they announced in season 2. Isn't it pretty obvious by now that Riot is yet another greedy game publisher?

supzman1 votes

Its sad, because your completly right. I actually thought they cared enough to fully look into each report but nope. Its a quick scan of chat logs then chat bans then perma banned

supzman1 votes

Its sad, because your completly right. I actually thought they cared enough to fully look into each report but nope. Its a quick scan of chat logs then chat bans then perma banned I really loved this game and now im in a state of depression

Photos of Ghosts1 votes

You are the one at fault because you're not some kind of deity with a magical will that fixes things because you said so. Your aggressiveness only stresses out people who are already being effectively living 40 minutes of CC y how behind they are. And it can push some clinical cases over the edge to suicide, although those people would help everyone if they didn't put themselves in danger by interacting in a competitive game online -_- but hey, you don't want to have a death on your shoulders, do you?

supzman2 votes

If your talking about my death then sure, mind helping? I dont enjoy life anymore whats a good way to go?

Koonta Kintae1 votes

wow that's moar feed than the #buffet @ the Bellagio! [slayer-pantheon-popcorn]

supzman1 votes

Im just mad about how it was one 2 week ban then perma ban after i get about 6 games in...

LatetotheRace1 votes

Sorry to hear about your ban, but this is obviously not the first time you've been reported and subsequently punished. To get an instaban without any prior warning or offence you must have uttered some truly horrific words. I am pretty sure you saw this coming as you've probably been warned in the past. I hope for your sake though that you can get your account back, and that personal reform ensues as to not lose your equity in the account. Good luck with the repeal system though :/

supzman1 votes

I got one two week ban then i play another good 7 or 9 or something games then bam my hard worked account is gone and so is all my friends

LatetotheRace1 votes

Well I'm sorry to hear about that man. But if you make another account of play another game with a similar offense system, I would seek advice of others on how you can protect yourself from being punished in the future. Here's hoping for one last chance from Riot eh? :)

supzman1 votes

I always gave riot a chance. My friends said they were money hungry and didnt care about the people who actually play. And i think its actually true now...

Astôlfo1 votes

blah blah sob story Next.

ArlanKels1 votes

Simple fact of life: People don't like being criticized. If you say something about someone and it's not a positive or reinforcing statement they're most likely NOT going to like it, no matter how helpful it is.

supzman1 votes

This is actually really helpful, all im thinking about now is my lost icons that i can never get back... And my legacy skins...

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