Found this video that basically affirms the mentality you should have here while you play this game. The Mods will agree I am sure because the video is about not blaming others for anything and fixing yourself.
Let me know what you think ok.
MordridtheBlack1 voteswhy is there not a third option that is "other"?
look, i'll admit, I make mistakes in games and I don't always admit when they are my mistake (working on this). but when I have a team mate who is feeding their buts off; going 0/8 despite every other lane doing decent, I will blame them for their shortcoming.
I have no control over how they play and I refuse to blame myself for something they did
Trump KAG 20201 votesIt is true you have no control over others. I just put two options, sorry. Did you like the video?
MordridtheBlack1 votesno worries
the video is interesting a tad more philosophical than I need while i'm partly sleep deprived (I woke up at like 3am my time for no real reason and couldn't fall back to sleep)
though I will say this sometimes asking why something is wrong can be valuable input to determining how to fix a problem right and wrong aren't always black and white, there can be grey areas where context or information can sway a decision
if I said that an animal had to die, most would view it as wrong; but they have no knowledge of the health and well-being of the animal. if the animal is sick and in pain, and there is no cure for the illness; then most would change their mind to see it as right because it would be better to end the suffering
in the case of league, I will occasionally try to offer advise to someone who is having issues. though I don't do it as much as I used to; mainly because everyone is so report happy right now that i'm partly afraid to even say Hi in the chat because someone could view it as a toxic insult
Trump KAG 20201 votesI think helping people is always a good choice, keep fighting the good fight. I know this game can make us salty and jaded though, sometimes I take breaks and it helps me forget how bad it can be and I renew my patience.