How to prevent my laning partner from tilting?

What I'm about to tell you might sound crazy, but I love full AP , and I play him best when I duo top as a support, and my teammates cooperate. I carry almost all of my games except the ones where teammates freak out and make irrational decisions to jeopardize the game out of anger. I will normally queue up for jungle, hide the fact that I'm playing and lock it in last minute, I feel like it's mischievous to do that, but if I don't my teammates will ban and I have to listen to them complain before I can even mute them, from there I will wait until last minute, and swap out for just to make sure top doesn't try to swap me and lock in jungle forcing me to play support top lane because thats unfair and I'll get steamrolled which leads to an even angrier team. I start because it works really well on him anyways even in a solo lane and unless another lane feeds super hard, I will almost always get first turret, my record being 2 turrets in 10:47 with an , I have always taken this strategy very seriously, and it works well for me for a lot of reasons, I enjoy playing it and so do the people I play with after we win, I've gotten everything from honors, friend requests and compliments to Disconnects, Inting, and flaming, but how can I ensure or maybe increase the chances that my teammate will cooperate and not get upset with my insanely effective, off-meta pick?