How to reform and how I did. (Long Read)
Hey guys i just like to start off by saying i have reformed from my 3 perma ban accounts over 2and a half yrs. this account i have had over 2.5 yrs and i have not been banned or chat restricted and get honnored often, so i though i would make this for people who are toxic and want to actually reform. there will be 3 category with point forum as followed (1 chat, 2 when to take a break or quit. 3 how to control anger.)
1.) Chat and text
Rules
1- turn off all chat, i say this because 80% of the time it will be used for flaming or trash talk, you do this under social in options.
2-(optional) Make your chat box smaller so its less distracting and you cant read people arguing or flaming you and you can focus more on game play.
3- Mute people i give people 3 strikes and after that third strike of toxicity or negitive behaviour mute them tell them you are so they stop talking and can play.
4- Dont get involved with others arguments, by this i mean if you see teammates arguing do not add your oppion or 2 cents to it unless you 100% cant contain yourself and just have to say something or if it turns into a flame war and its so bad do step 3, just try and tell them stop, do not say this in a rude way for example
dude this damn yi is so trash like he wont gank top ever!!!!
dude stfu you fed lane and are playing a trash champ thats not in the meta fk you not ganking top ur trash.
(YOU) hey attrox yi just calm down yi you are very strong late and are ahead a bit so calm down and focus on cs, Attrox just play passive if you die dont blame jg just focus cs and late game split push if you are still not fed or dont catch up.
5- "its your job to say good job" encurage your team if they do good tell them and when you do good 90% they will say gj or keep it up, trust me that riot tip is not a lie you do win more when you are positive trust me it gos along way.
2.)When To Quit/ take a break. Rules 1- my ranked solo/duo rule, (for me might help you tho) if you win two in a row or 3-4 stop! trust me league ranked is like gambling you quit when you are ahead and doing well dont get too greedy with lp because after those 3-4 wins and you lose you will prob say to yourself man i got to get that lp back, and if you win great but if you lose you will 100% guaranteed begin to tilt because now you just lost about 2-3 and a half hrs of lp and you will rage or flame. 2- this has been said with other big YouTubers and there right play other games when you think you are getting tired or mad at league, for me id suggest playing a casual game or different non competitive game for me that is wow and overwatch, what ill do when im at the point ill actually uninstall league and when i think im ready get back into it after my sub on wow runs out or i get burnt on overwatch. 3- dont play ranked if you dont want to remember if you are feeling mad or tilted no one is forcing you to play ranked play aram or weekly game mode or hell norms, just dont bring your tilt with you and remember when in normal have fun ofc play to win but if you lose no big deal your not losing or gaining anything other that a bit more ip for wins. 4- go outside or go to friends house, this tip is self explanatory if its a nice day go outside play with dog outside or swim, or go to a friends house do something with them
3.)**How to control anger in league ** Rules 1- remember these are just random people over the internet you will never meet or relate with. 2- flaming will cause nothing because face it you both will not stop and keep typing and nothing will get accomplished like honestly over my 3 perma banned accounts before i reformed and got better i cant even tell you one the person i was arguing with or why i was and trust me i argued a lot. 3- most important at the end of the day its just a game and will mean nothing to 98% of us i say this because some might make a youtube or twitch or become a pro/ popular and make a living off of it, so for the 98% league if you want to think about it in a dark and kinda sad way will mean nothing to us because if you think about your going to die so why care about your rank there no point in being good at league and when were older lets face it league will most likely not be around in 25-35 yrs and when were adult or seniors all we will remember about league is that one game that was just a small blip of entertainment from our child hood/ adult hood and will mean nothing to us then. so enjoy it and have fun while you can.
Anyway that got dark quick thank you for reading i really hope this helps some toxic people become better or even reform like i did trust me its hard but its possible, you just have to make small nice/kind steps and follow the tips i gave and you will see improvement. as always have good day/night and gl hf.
ps leave a comment love to hear what you think and if you need more help with your toxicity or want to play a game with me add me on league Mr Igbokwe ( Don't ask inside joke ;P)