Actually muting every single players in my team from now on.

Katsumi41·5/24/2019, 1:18:30 AM·13 votes·10,840 views
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Im actually about to stop playing the game because of all those sexist comments, it makes me want to throw up. It happens about every single game and it feels like those player never have any consequences because theres just many of them.

https://gyazo.com/98fbe64526c111800f08b53f8b311659 https://gyazo.com/9c806e02c26539d476dc12c82029fe8c https://gyazo.com/8dd417d34a0949d18ab9468590c446f7 https://gyazo.com/7f58c49c4dd18b01314525dab6624de2

52 Comments

stopthesinged5/24/2019, 12:20:51 PM9 votes

Just curious - how do they know you’re a girl? I wouldn’t get that from your name . . .

Quiet Dude5/24/2019, 12:34:14 PM7 votes

A lot of incels play this game

Jhins Girlfriend5/24/2019, 4:23:40 PM6 votes

Yikes, OP. I'd send in a ticket just to be sure, I hate these kinds of people. Specifically, the """egirl""" insult, double specifically if you play support.

Like, half the dudes who complain about support mains can't play any sup champs to save their lives and are relying on them to save their dumb asses in lane. [sg-lulu]

General Esdeath 5/24/2019, 8:25:35 AM4 votes

Call them an incel, usually pisses guys like that off

I do wish Riot would crack down harder on stuff like this though. I feel like it should just be a permaban.

TheSingularity5/24/2019, 2:45:03 PM3 votes

tbf whether they discerned/guessed your sex or not, they'd be dicks either way for the exact same reason, because they can. The only alteration they make is the kind of trash they spew. Say something that even slightly resembles something group X would say, and you see similar adjustments in the kinds of insults they toss. Such is the nature of a petty, worthless brat... all they can do is attack the superficial, like a politician they can't stand on their own 2 feet, and instead have to stamp on the toes of others.

While one shouldn't have to. /mute all, disable/hide the chat ect. Not sure how long you've been playing, but if not for long you get used to it.

In the end, they're microscopic specs, living in an insignificant city/town, on a teeny tiny planet in an irrelevant galaxy. Why even gratify something so pointless with a response? Is it really worth your time and energy?

Power Mac5/24/2019, 7:57:17 AM3 votes

Well, a few games ago I've been flamed by a couple enemies because I dared to write (as I always do at the start of a game) in the global chat "Good luck and have fun, guys". Anyway, those guys are utterly disgusting. I've never seen something like that happening on the European server, seems like America has a major issue with the concept of respecting women.

Kei1435/24/2019, 1:24:14 AM2 votes

Just tell them that kasumi can be a guy's name as well.

ZaFishbone5/24/2019, 8:12:50 AM2 votes

Just report and move on. And maybe try to friend and play with ppl who you see are nice. It makes the gameplay much easier to have a pal who you know won't flame or harass you.

Ph03n1xb1rd5/24/2019, 8:53:56 PM2 votes

I'm pretty sure you cause this somehow, announcing you are a girl or whatever...

Some time ago one of my other accs was a main support with (Morgana, Soraka, Lulu) and somehow i was NEVER assumed to be a girl.... Just strange....

Souji5/25/2019, 2:38:38 AM2 votes

Exactly this. People seem even more sexist recently. Had one game I made the mistake of saying my friend will be right back when she disconnected and like the idiot I am, I said 'She'll' and then the Draven kept on calling her an egirl and ehunnie etc whatever he can think about and complain in all chat about having an 'egirl' as his support. Worst thing is when the rest of your team says nothing or joins in. More recently I myself experienced sexist comments just because I was playing Yuumi. I didn't even say a single thing that Yuumi game. People are dumb. I feel like punishments towards sexist comments should be harsher than just a chat restriction to get across the message its not okay to do.

BackdoorPrincess5/25/2019, 6:47:45 AM2 votes

See I never get those comments, weird given my name

KFCeytron5/25/2019, 9:24:59 AM2 votes

I've played several thousand games and don't recall seeing this kind of behavior even a single time. Chat is usually dead silent, with the occasional "gj" or "we lose" or whatever. Half-hearted arguments are moderately common, but this level of banworthy behavior is an absolute rarity in my experience - especially with this such a focus. Perhaps the frequency with which you're seeing it is largely due to the familiarity factor you mention, with people at such a high MMR actually playing together multiple times and getting to know each other.

RobShizzle5/25/2019, 5:59:24 PM2 votes

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Im actually about to stop playing the game because of all those sexist comments, it makes me want to throw up. It happens about every single game and it feels like those player never have any consequences because theres just many of them.

https://gyazo.com/98fbe64526c111800f08b53f8b311659 https://gyazo.com/9c806e02c26539d476dc12c82029fe8c https://gyazo.com/8dd417d34a0949d18ab9468590c446f7 https://gyazo.com/7f58c49c4dd18b01314525dab6624de2

At the risk of getting downvoted into oblivion, here's a piece of advice. Stop telling people you're female. You're quite obviously doing it, and you're doing it often if you're seeing this much sexist nonsense in the chat regularly.

Carry for Weeks5/29/2019, 12:59:51 AM1 votes

The fact you let this shit bother you is laughable. Who gives a fuck? mute them and move on. You give these people power by giving them attention. They can't do anything to you. I literally play with my GF all the time and she never gets "sexist" comments ever. You are most likely doing something to incite it.

DrFiveMinusMinus5/25/2019, 6:53:51 PM1 votes

This is why it pisses me the fuck off when people are like "OHH HURR DURR GIRLS ARE JUST BAD AT LEAGUE." Would you want to sit through all the goddamn harassment all while people are telling you you're not allowed to be upset about it? It's no wonder a lot of female players quit before getting high ELO.

FioraWillCarry5/26/2019, 2:31:29 AM1 votes

I get called a %%%%%%%%%%, idiot, %%%%%%, noob, r%%%%%, dumbass, shit stain, piece of shit every day I play this game at some point, and guess what, I don't give a single fuck. I don't even bother reporting people for that because I simply do not care. You're being overly dramatic OP. Perhaps online games aren't for you if you think demanding we try to change human nature is the way to go.

Jonesybones5/25/2019, 10:21:00 AM1 votes

I'm sorry. I can't beleive this exist at D2. how is this possible?

A girl Supp Main5/24/2019, 12:14:08 PM1 votes

The worst part is that sexism doesn't trigger riots no no word filter, so reporting them does nothing.

This Is Your Dad5/24/2019, 4:34:01 PM1 votes

Hey, I won't say don't worry about it, but let me explain to you the idea behind stereotyping people in a condescending way.

Many people that do this kind of thing feel inferior and weak because they have no argument to stand on. They are mentally unstable, due to various factors, and take the easy road and put others down for aspects of themselves they either cannot change, or should not change. The truth is women can kick my ass in most video games. I'm a guy, but I have seen through experience that male or female shows absolutely no cognitive difference in terms of how we play the game. Guys that do this aren't actually trying to actively insult you to hurt you as their only goal. They need something to step on in their moments of failure because they are weak emotionally.

I'm not making excuses for these people or invalidating how you feel. I just want you to know possible reasons that are not related to you at all may be contributing to your issues. I want you to know that I care and think about how this affects women. And the sad thing is, they're shooting themselves in the foot. I for one would love it if more women played video games, so I could meet them online and maybe become friends and find my partner through an associated network. I can't imagine a world in which these guys would act this way towards women and not expect to be single for a very long time.

So really, it all amounts to stupidity and immaturity. I am sorry you have to take our immaturity, but know that in the end, you'll come out ahead of them because you don't need to put someone down for something outside of their control to make yourself happy.

This Is Your Dad5/24/2019, 4:39:57 PM1 votes

As a solution, since I didn't really give you one, play games unmuted, find some respectable people, add them and then play with them.

Also, ask people from the boards who have similar issues to add you and play with you in game. League should be less about randos and more about community building.

Jonesybones5/25/2019, 10:24:27 AM1 votes

Also wtf is wrong with ppl? report those fuckers. This is why I won't stop having a voice. This also why i report ppl. And everyone needs to work together to turn this trash community arround.

Moonscourge5/24/2019, 8:57:51 PM1 votes

Don't talk to people. It's that simple. I don't care about the random shit they say, especially on my team. Just realize there is absolutely nothing they could say that adds to the game. Sure, they can spam :) and "nice play" all they want, but that's not gonna impact me. Odds are much higher that they complain or flame, which WILL influence how I play.