Is there anyway i can express my frustration w/o being toxic?

1. Because you weren't analyzing the game, you were blaming. Giving advice, pointing out what could've gone better? Fine. Blaming and flaming? No.

2. Because there is no enforced meta.

3. Yes - give them mid, or don't. If they feed in game, report them.

4. You're allowed to express frustration.. but not by flaming or blaming others.

I feel your pain mate, it sucks to get toxic teammates and then have to try to keep your cool. I wrote a bit about it a while back, this might help you out, check it out if you're interested:

https://boards.na.leagueoflegends.com/en/c/player-behavior-moderation/bv2m7fx4-feeders-and-toxic-teammates-got-you-down-this-may-help

Also, here's something I wrote about more recently that's not in that post, verb tense.

Verb tense affects how people perceive what you say, even when both you and they are not aware of the difference it makes. It's subconscious.

Past tense is used to attribute credit/blame for things which already happened. Thus it is safest to never use past tense to talk about something someone did wrong. Made this mistake with a friend of mine recently and oh boy did it go badly. Trust me, don't use past tense unless you plan on giving credit for something good that happened. otherwise you're just begging for people to become combative with you.

Present tense is for talking about values. This can be seen when people say "unlucky" when their ally dies. It's helpful to use to align people to your values, by showing sympathy for their perspective you can sometimes set them up to be more receptive to advice you give right afterwards.

Future tense is where the magic happens. If you can keep talking about what to do next time and talk about how it will work rather than talk about how they should have avoided X, then you will keep them oriented on the goal of playing better, and they will not subconsciously feel the need to stop and argue with you about if it really was their fault or not.

If you must rage then do so at the screen or into a pillow or something instead of in the chat. Doing this allows you to vent your frustrations without compromising your teams chances of success.

yes there's a way it's called log out and do something else.

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Game 1 Pre-Game DivineGodKing: anyone want adc? DivineGodKing: i was autofilled here DivineGodKing: just for the record In-Game DivineGodKing: free gold plz DivineGodKing: my support is raka.. DivineGodKing: op strats DivineGodKing: plz bro DivineGodKing: cry more DivineGodKing: you clearly died at red there DivineGodKing: ? DivineGodKing: plz DivineGodKing: stop bitching DivineGodKing: or i will afk DivineGodKing: he gonna keep crying this whole game DivineGodKing: thought i was muted DivineGodKing: guess not DivineGodKing: am i? DivineGodKing: ok DivineGodKing: i will DivineGodKing: report raka afk DivineGodKing: i got autofilled bot and my support left me solol DivineGodKing: but i;'m trolling DivineGodKing: k DivineGodKing: me also DivineGodKing: i was autofilled adc.. DivineGodKing: i'm not allowed to type? DivineGodKing: plz.. DivineGodKing: and your afk in a bush bro DivineGodKing: plz don't cry about me DivineGodKing: not sure who garen is talking too DivineGodKing: not stuck in gold.. DivineGodKing: why i'm fine DivineGodKing: you should have adced then DivineGodKing: i would have supported DivineGodKing: that loser mentality DivineGodKing: bro i was autofilled adc DivineGodKing: i offered it to you DivineGodKing: now you mad cuz i was forced to adc DivineGodKing: not jg? DivineGodKing: i hit the buff DivineGodKing: didn't i? DivineGodKing: so did i help him or not? DivineGodKing: gj getting drag DivineGodKing: to bad its still a 4v5 DivineGodKing: stay mid lux DivineGodKing: if i defend it raka leaves me to die DivineGodKing: they dont want too DivineGodKing: full ap nunu DivineGodKing: lol if we win this.. DivineGodKing: thanks lux DivineGodKing: for trying to save me Post-Game DivineGodKing: we still won.. DivineGodKing: how amusing DivineGodKing: sorry raka DivineGodKing: i know how much you wanted me to lose DivineGodKing: =( DivineGodKing: its ok raka i'll lose next time i'm autofilled adc Game 2 In-Game DivineGodKing: my fault DivineGodKing: if i notece we had no adc DivineGodKing: would have dodged DivineGodKing: noticed* DivineGodKing: give me some free kills too diana DivineGodKing: pinged him DivineGodKing: still stayed DivineGodKing: w.e DivineGodKing: i have 0 idea why you guys engaged that DivineGodKing: now you crying bout yi DivineGodKing: plz report irelia for the troll pick DivineGodKing: ggwp DivineGodKing: legit DivineGodKing: your maining irelia bot? DivineGodKing: why should i? DivineGodKing: your playing irelia bot lane DivineGodKing: about what? DivineGodKing: you playing ielia bot lane? DivineGodKing: i think i'm right about that.. DivineGodKing: who said it was bad? DivineGodKing: its a troll pick DivineGodKing: irelia is op overall DivineGodKing: yea irelia bot is trolling DivineGodKing: you could play her mid or top DivineGodKing: instead you pick adc DivineGodKing: and run her bot DivineGodKing: why do that? DivineGodKing: plz what? DivineGodKing: you trying to tell me ireila adc is better then irelia top or mid DivineGodKing: really? DivineGodKing: plz DivineGodKing: irelia adc is now better then irelia mid or top DivineGodKing: tell rito DivineGodKing: cuz your scared to admit the truth DivineGodKing: just say it if you believe it DivineGodKing: say you beleve irela bot is better then her mid Post-Game DivineGodKing: oh so you can admit the truth DivineGodKing: you don't know DivineGodKing: you just run her bot DivineGodKing: for kicks DivineGodKing: cuz you can't solo lane i guess DivineGodKing: w.e DivineGodKing: good luck in the future DivineGodKing: no DivineGodKing: ? DivineGodKing: cuz it won't change the truth

I'm just gonna post the logs unedited,

1. My question here is why are we not allowed to analyze the game in "post game chat"?

2. If someone is trying "unconventional" strats, why am i not allowed to dodge the game without penalty?

3. Is there a proper way to handle someone coming into champ select saying mid or feed (or some other variant of this) whats your recourse play the whole game and report them after?

4. Is there a way to express my frustration without it being "toxic"

Nope, RIOT says frustration is not allowed yet they do everything in their power to increase it with this bullshit system.

Just like any other frustrating thing you may encounter in life, one of the best things to do is to find someone to talk with. Someone who loves and values you will certainly take the time to listen.

If you go to a wise person, they may be able to help you learn how to interact with your emotions.

If you go to a smart person, they may be able to find a solution to the things that frustrate you.

I'm not going to read all that, but the way to vent frustration to the team causing it without getting banned requires a few thigns:

A. It needs to be constructive. Telling someone they suck is bannable. Telling them to stop chasing in the jungle isn't. B. It needs to have poetic flourish. You can't say "stop fucking around in the jungle." You should say something like "If people stopped having a picnic at the Red Buff we might not be getting dumpstered." Picnic in the jungle is my favorite phrase. C. Be a shot gun, not a sniper rifle. Talk generally. You're fucking ridiculous = bad. This is fucking ridiculous = less bad.

I also like to say things such as

you need to look at the map twice as much as you are right now We need towers not kills, group mid Dragon is not the priority right now, we need towers Join the Nintendo Fun Club today, Mac! Towers are more important than your IRL children Keep one eye on baron Stop Typing

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