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KDA Umbra you've missed his main point
I don't think he missed his point at all. The OP's argument boils down to he, himself, was toxic but it's unfair to be punished because he was only defending himself, and Riot would see this if they looked at the entire chat as opposed to just his comments. Which has been explained a thousand times before, Riot doesn't see that as justification for being toxic regardless of whether people accept or understand the reasoning behind it. Side note: He's almost certainly been penalized before and had this explained, but he chose to ignore the information.
...freedom of speech
Has nothing to do with this. Freedom of speech is protection from the government restricting speech, not a private entity. At least in the US.
This is why you can't report for toxicity, since beauty is after all; in the eyes of the beholder.
Except this isn't true because we have social norms to guide us like mores, folkways, etc., that help define what we currently consider correct or incorrect behavior. So, this argument people don't know what's acceptable and not acceptable is malarkey. People know the intentions behind the comments they make.
Not banning, excluding, and segregating these two communities.
There aren't two communities. According to a presentation Riot gave a while back, 98% of players weren't considered toxic. Yes, the average player has bad days but aren't consistently toxic. There is one community and a bunch of toxic outliers that have shown no apparent attempt to improve.
There are many types. Some reach out and hurt, some hide and defend themselves.
Consider this if you consider nothing else I've said. Stop thinking about this from a strictly emotional standpoint, so to speak, because what I keep hearing in different variations is that people are too sensitive and get triggered too easy. Since, people get triggered so easy, Riot has came along and just started banning to protect the easily triggered.
Look at it from this perspective. Imagine there is a game going on. In said game Player A. makes a comment that is mildly inflammatory to Player B. Player B. takes issue with this comment and says something inflammatory back. This escalates between the two players. They are spending more time typing in chat than they are playing. Half the time they barely make it out of the base before they start at it again. Now this is the important bit. There are eight other people in this game and we don't care. We want you to both stfu and play the game. I didn't join a game to listen to two idiots rage at each other for 30 minutes and to lose because they don't want to focus instead of waving their d*cks around. I'm sure too if you asked both of the players, they would both say they feel justified in what they are doing. They are just defending themselves. Just trying to win the game by pointing something out or any of the other inane reasons people give.
Taking it a step further. Two players are negatively affecting the game for potentially eight other players and causing them to get frustrated, irritated, tilted or whatever. Those players now go into 10 more unique games and take those frustrations with them, each causing 8 more people to get frustrated, irritated, and tilted. The cycle continues. So when Riot says they don't want any toxicity regardless of who started it, then yeah, I'm behind it. It makes sense to me. Riot isn't trying to protect the snowflakes from the big mean alpha men. They are trying to shield the player base from excess toxicity.
Thickening our skins
If someone needs to thicken their skin it's the people who are the ones getting banned for being toxic. Every instance of someone being banned I've seen has been that player either going off on someone for playing poorly, not playing how they think they should, or some other issue with the other players outside themselves. These people never do anything wrong, it's always their team. The other reason people get banned is because they must defend themselves and become toxic in return.