I got banned for being called a %%%got who didn't want to play a game where I was being flamed?

mercyplzzz··2 votes·2,022 views

A few days or so ago I played a game of ranked, trying to teach a friend the game. My jungler/top wanted to do Yi Kayle, Yi got taken so the jungler picked Jax except for the fact he forgot smite. Now most of the time this should be a losing factor in games IMO, because unless your team has a big advantage already your junglers going to have way less presence in ganking lanes as well as most likely not being able to contest baron again unless your team has a big advantage (such as a fed Caitlyn).

Game 1 mercyplzzz: should be an easy lane for you kayle mercyplzzz: he has flash I was referring to the fact that Olaf top took flash. mercyplzzz: wow no jungler.. mercyplzzz: wth you were doing the kayle top combo mercyplzzz: but you forgot smite... Simply stating that he forgot smite, I didn't say anything rude to him. mercyplzzz: gp has ult mercyplzzz: care Warning my teammates about how Gangplank's global ult can help win fights. mercyplzzz: damn mercyplzzz: wow mercyplzzz: wow thats great mercyplzzz: 3 mid Bot lane had fed and not pinged mia. mercyplzzz: this games over mercyplzzz: ur finishing raptors Jax started flaming me here because I pinged him to help me when he was doing raptors instead of counter ganking, when I was playing mid. mercyplzzz: lul mercyplzzz: care bot mercyplzzz: theyre all mia Warning my team to be careful. mercyplzzz: bryuh im mid mercyplzzz: i love how the supports a higher level than the jungler mercyplzzz: honestly mercyplzzz: this jax cost us this game mercyplzzz: bruh mercyplzzz: yi is fed mercyplzzz: you have doen nothing all game Jax started flaming me calling me bad and such. mercyplzzz: your dumb mercyplzzz: grammar nazi Corrected my grammar when he wasn't using proper grammar either :thinking: mercyplzzz: smd mercyplzzz: your duo gonna back you up mercyplzzz: thats cool mercyplzzz: literally jax was level 3 when alistar was level 6 True story, and it was a Alistar who was losing lane too so he had a few deaths under his belt. mercyplzzz: we really dont mercyplzzz: ff mercyplzzz: sivir you have to know league is not overwatch Sivir was my friend that I was trying to help teach in League. mercyplzzz: you cant comeback when your late game is worse mercyplzzz: champions are so much more divers mercyplzzz: no mercyplzzz: you cant mercyplzzz: in diamond you can mercyplzzz: ur fucking garbage I understand that was toxic, but for the amount of rude things I said they did quite a bit more. mercyplzzz: shut up mercyplzzz: thats nice mercyplzzz: we have a worse late game mercyplzzz: and theyre winning early mercyplzzz: theres no winning this Again I was talking to my friend Sivir. mercyplzzz: im not gonna be helping you out if you dont listen to me mercyplzzz: theres no way we can win this unless the enemies make constant huge mistakes that we abuse mercyplzzz: we arent winning mercyplzzz: jax has no SMITE mercyplzzz: thats important mercyplzzz: if we made it to late game mercyplzzz: baron would be a no contestion area mercyplzzz: yi late game > jax late game mercyplzzz: yes kayle but olaf isnt bad late game mercyplzzz: gp late game > annie late game mercyplzzz: supports go even mercyplzzz: but corkis a better late game than sivir mercyplzzz: just because hes a better adc :/ mercyplzzz: k sivir do you mind if i afk mercyplzzz: aight mercyplzzz: report me for not wanting to play a game where my dumbass jungler keeps thinking we can win when hes done nothing all game The Jax and Kayle started flaming me in all chat, the Kayle calling me a %%%got. I find that really offensive. Why the hell are people still using homosexuality as an insult? This is 2017 and you're not the KKK. mercyplzzz: stfu weeb mercyplzzz: your name mercyplzzz: is "im a weeb" mercyplzzz: thats interesting mercyplzzz: sure As you can see while they were flaming me half the time I simply responded with "that's nice" or "sure". mercyplzzz: tfw yo uwana baron with no smite mercyplzzz: lul mercyplzzz: we shouldve contested baron mercyplzzz: OH WAIT mercyplzzz: XD mercyplzzz: k mercyplzzz: being called %%%got mercyplzzz: but no report me

32 Comments

RiotRiot Tantram12 votes

You got a deserved chat restriction, not an unjustified ban.

mercyplzzz3 votes

As much as I understand I was toxic, what I don't understand is why I was punished but the Jax/Kayle weren't when they were flaming me all game.

2Crippled2Carry1 votes

So you do admit you were toxic

mercyplzzz1 votes

I said that all of the flaming I did was in retaliation to previous flaming, not that I wasn't toxic.

HalcyonDweller2 votes

Retaliation is never ok. You have to realize that when you stoop to their level, you add to the negative experience for your other 3 teammates.

Mute them and report after the game, that is the only acceptable solution in Riot's eyes.

EDIT: Also, you have no way of knowing if they were chat restricted for their behavior, the only thing you could conceivably check is if they got banned, since you could tell if they stopped playing for a while. They probably got a restriction, because acting like that doesn't go unnoticed.

EvilDustMan3 votes

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As much as I understand I was toxic, what I don't understand is why I was punished but the Jax/Kayle weren't when they were flaming me all game.

Who says they weren't?

mercyplzzz1 votes

I do. I reported both of them and I didn't get a notification indicating that they were punished.

DrCyanide4 votes

You don't get a notification every time you report someone who is punished.

Colgate Gator4 votes

You weren't being banned for that, but because you seem to be an extremely antagonistic person.

mercyplzzz1 votes

As true as that may be I was right.

Eevee In A Jar3 votes

Two rights don't make a wrong. This isn't preschool where you're having a ego stroking contest over who's dad can beat the other's dad.

sej twen2 votes

this seems fair in my opinion, going afk and flaming hard is pretty banable i think

mercyplzzz1 votes

How was I flaming hard? Sure I had a lot of negative comments, but I used 0 racial/homophobic slurs and only retaliated from an insult with an insult.

Eevee In A Jar3 votes

This is evident that your attitude was so bad that you provoked your teammates into calling you words. I'm not saying that guy is innocent. He's still guilty of saying a homophobic slur... but you literally would not shut up and kept antagonizing your teammates. If I had a teammate like you, I'd mute and report you ASAP with no doubt in my mind you getting banned.

sej twen1 votes

you were pretty negative through out the whole game in my opinion

HalcyonDweller1 votes

You were trying to teach a friend league so you took them into ranked?

No offense but that already sounds like a recipe for disaster. Why not Coop Vs. AI or at least Normals?

mercyplzzz1 votes

My friend was gold 5 lol

HalcyonDweller2 votes

Regardless, you are responsible for your own behavior. There was no need to repeatedly say 'the game is over' and 'jax is to blame' throughout the match.

Playing the blame game and arguing only contributes to negativity, and this is definitely punishable according to the Summoner's Code.

Your time would have been better spent strategizing or working with your team to determine the next best play to make in order to try to gain an advantage or win the game.

mercyplzzz1 votes

I was simply referring to the fact he had no smite, and not the fact that Jax didn't gank... Also don't understand my simple comment of "my friend was gold 5" got 2 downvotes LOL

HalcyonDweller1 votes

It doesn't really matter what you blame him for, the fact is that you are blaming and accusing. This is negative and unhelpful regardless of the reasons for it.

I suspect that it had to do with missing the point, but I wouldn't know, I didn't vote. Here I'll upvote to counter one of them.

NLGG3R BEATER2 votes

Lmfao wtf is this logic. If someone fucks up then it's natural you'd point out where they fucked up, this is how experience is gained.

Now it depends on elo but naturally jungler not taking smite results in a 100% loss, as in LITERAL 100%. The fact that the enemy team in this particular situation had better lategame is even irrelevant at this point.

Also from what I understand he was talking to his friend not the other guys but they still decided to provoke him.

While being toxic makes the game difficult to play what Jax did made it impossible to win. Although I agree OP was being actually toxic by saying "ur fucking garbage" but if I were him I woulda told the Jax to straight up hang himself, OP was being gentle XD

HalcyonDweller2 votes

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While being toxic makes the game difficult to play what Jax did made it impossible to win. Although I agree OP was being actually toxic by saying "ur fucking garbage" but if I were him I woulda told the Jax to straight up hang himself, OP was being gentle XD

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So you losing a game due to another person's mistake is worth their life in your opinion?

No offense but that's kind of fucked up. It's just a videogame.

mercyplzzz1 votes

They said way more rude things to me. I was called a %%%got, you know how rude that is? It's used as a insult to homosexuals, and even with all the acceptance we have in this modern day people on the internet are still so inconsiderate. I understand what ReformedWhiteMan is saying, albeit I wouldn't wish it upon the Jax in real life Jax screwed the game over with not taking smite and thus flamed me for teaching my friend what a lost game is. As ReformedWhiteMan said, I was talking to my friend, the Sivir and not saying "Jax you forgot smite your bad". It was only when I refered to Jax while speaking to Sivir that he started really flaming me. Before that he would make remarks like "I was 200 health after doing raptors" when he was about level 5 and had a plentiful amount of health before doing that. This was all going on while I was being dove mid lane by three people.

HalcyonDweller1 votes

Judging from Tantram's response, you lied about being called that racial slur.

That alone makes me distrust you.

_ Edit: My mistake, I got this confused with another post I had been involved in the past few days._

However, all that aside it is never ok to harass teammates. It doesn't matter who started it. It's your responsibility to mute the player and not cross that line.

mercyplzzz1 votes

At least someone understands how League of Legends works.

HalcyonDweller1 votes

If I were you I wouldn't encourage someone who just posted "I'd tell them to kill themselves" on the forums.

You may not have been responding to that part of his comment, but he's going to take it as support for that anyway.

NLGG3R BEATER1 votes

{quoted} If I were you I wouldn't encourage someone who just posted "I'd tell them to kill themselves" on the forums.

Yeah, so that's the thing. Given the fact that Jax completely ruined the game by himself yet didn't admit his mistake and had the ball to actually trash talk it's very common that I'd be inclined to tilt them back as much as I could, but that doesn't mean it's an actual death threat that should be taken seriously, to me it's in the same category as telling someone to "fuck off" or to "go fuck themselves. Sure, using the term to curse people who made a mistake might slightly offend them but how it'd offend a troll who derives joy from baiting/insulting people constantly.

As a matter of fact before visiting these boards little did I know this term is that big of a deal, never took it seriously or reacted to it seriously, the fact that league's community consists of mainly sensitive e-girls is something i'm not going to adapt to.

Off-topic, throughout 6 years of playing Blizzard games (specifically wow) such terms are actually rather trivial and laughable there, so I don't see what the fuss is all about at.

HalcyonDweller1 votes

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Off-topic, throughout 6 years of playing Blizzard games (specifically wow) such terms are actually rather trivial and laughable there, so I don't see what the fuss is all about at.

League is a lot more competitive than WoW. Stress levels are higher and people tilt harder. Also you are required to play with whichever players the matchmaking system gives you, there is no "leaving the party" as an option because you are punished for doing so. All this combined means that harassment hits a lot harder in this game.

Fun fact, tilt is actually the same thing as emotional flooding. It's the same concept as when children can't stop crying even when they forget why they were crying in the first place. The emotions (and stress) course through the person's conscious overtaking all rational thought. You're right, most rational people wouldn't take you seriously if you told them to kill themselves, but a person who is running purely on emotions is not going to react rationally to anything. By saying "kys," you directly exacerbate their suffering.

You might say, "good, they deserved it." But that's not really the point here. It's not your place to enact justice and vengeance for yourself on them for ruining your game. Report them and leave them in Riot's hands.

Yeah, so that's the thing. Given the fact that Jax completely ruined the game by himself yet didn't admit his mistake and had the ball to actually trash talk it's very common that I'd be inclined to tilt them back as much as I could...

Two wrongs don't make a right, it doesn't matter what the Jax did. You should never turn around and stoop to their level.

but that doesn't mean it's an actual death threat that should be taken seriously, to me it's in the same category as telling someone to "fuck off" or to "go fuck themselves. Sure, using the term to curse people who made a mistake might slightly offend them but how it'd offend a troll who derives joy from baiting/insulting people constantly.

It doesn't matter what you think of what you say, it's how it is received. The possible impact of saying such a thing - if the person receiving it were unstable - would be unacceptable.

As a matter of fact before visiting these boards little did I know this term is that big of a deal, never took it seriously or reacted to it seriously, the fact that league's community consists of mainly sensitive e-girls is something i'm not going to adapt to.

It is your responsibility to not take that risk with a player of unknown background and mental health. You interact with them for less than an hour of your life, you have no idea what they are like outside of that hour. You can't make an accurate assessment of a person from such a short interaction with them.

Eevee In A Jar2 votes

Stop getting defensive when people are pointing out what you did wrong and why you were punished. You getting defensive over it just makes it that much more satisfying you got banned.

HalcyonDweller1 votes

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You getting defensive over it just makes it that much more satisfying you got banned.

I do not agree with this statement.

AhmadS51 votes

When you talk this much in a game , that means u were not playing lol

VoraciousX1 votes

A late game Jax could still beat a Yi late game and as you said you could have won despite Jax forgetting smite. Him not ganking while the enemy ahead was expected. When someone forgets smite no one gets ganks because the jungler needs items. You're supposed to be playing under tower and not feeding the enemy any kills.

As for toxicity you were heavily griefing before anything was said. Griefing is reportable. Sure the others were retaliating but we don't know if they were punished or not, however you did help to incite it.

But a Jax that is behind due to forgetting smite isn't gonna be able to counter gank 3 mid. It sounds like you wanted him to die. If bot came mid your bot should have either pushed or followed. Either way when a jungle forgets smite the only thing you can do is let him farm and try not to die at all.

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