Riot has integrated this stupid honor shit too much into the game now
Not really. Honor only affects the following: Hextech Crafting (in the way of ambient key fragment generation), Ranked play (in the way of eligibility for end of season rewards), and Clash (in the way of eligibility to sign up).
That's hardly "too integrated". You can still play the game, you can still use the shop, you can still use Hextech Crafting and play Ranked - so, I'd say that since it's unobtrusive to playing the game, it's not "too integrated".
i EARNED my gold rank just to have it ripped away because i got a chat restrict too late into the season
You earned your Gold Rank through good play - you lost it through dishonorable behavior. Besides, this is hardly an issue with Honor, as even in seasons before 2017, Riot would make players ineligible to receive rewards if they got punished near season's end.
lyte ruined this game...
You can tell because the game's still flourishing. ...Waitaminute.
...and their player behavior team continues to make this game worse
Again; this time with less sarcasm: If they really were making the game worse (which, how can you get worse than "ruined"?), then it'd be extremely visible.
But, I suppose you are right in a sense; they are making the game worse...For you, and in your opinion. But, if you don't like punishments, don't break the rules.