Im Toxic and i need help

Justin420Trudeau·6/26/2015, 7:33:51 PM·4 votes·849 views

I have to be the most toxic player in league, i have played this game since Betta and i have had multiple 300 game plus chat bans multiple 2 week bans. If someone is bad on my team i have no other way to describe it other than i just feel like i need to let them know it, i swear, use racist terms and am just relentless for no other reason other than i am doing better than them and i have no idea how to stop. I try to just not use chat but i just get so frustrated with my team that i start flaming by second nature. league is not my primary game but i still play it weekly i am high gold low plat ello and i just cant find a way to not be toxic. help.

7 Comments

Aerothal6/26/2015, 9:09:23 PM2 votes

Toxicity is like swearing, overeating, staying up too late, smoking etc... its a habit. habits form easy and are really hard to break. there is a saying that it takes 21 days to break a habit. While that is not completely true for all habits, it generally is a good start! Get one of those cheap 12 page picture calendars (looking at your personality you MUST like Kittens ;P). Start your league game with the mental exercise of telling yourself that no matter what, you will not use chat. if necessary cover the pre-game chat box. In game, immediately type /mute all then focus on yourself and your gameplay. Try to see other peoples mistakes as funny. if someone plays really dumb, that shouldnt upset you, it should make you laugh. Get into the mindset: "oh, its one of THESE games. no worries! in a year i will not even remember it!" after every game day that you successfully did not type/rage, you cross off one day at the calendar. It gets easier day by day! (and yeah, if you re-lapse you should not worry. it happens. habits are hard to break, remember?!

just start the calendar crosses over.

Key is that you really want to change. I am confident that if you desire a change that you can make it happen!

Good luck man!

edit.: and dont forget the aftergame chat. dont fall into that salt trap. just click it away. dont even enter it. not worth.

cheers

67169943_DEL6/26/2015, 7:34:50 PM1 votes

lmfao dude i feel you

my main got perma and died with a 500 game chat ban

PS,this account has a 500 game chat ban also xD

EL HAMSTERO6/26/2015, 9:02:23 PM1 votes

my record is 714 game chat ban. I have heard some people have broken 1000 but I haven't achieved that yet.

Hizsoo6/27/2015, 4:35:11 AM1 votes

I'd rather just be ambitious and arrogant and laugh gloatingly when shit happens. Like sometimes when I do watch the newsreel and there is ANOTHER car crash or something, than what a SURPRISE. There are shitty players in my team at LoL and what a SURPRISE. I just have to make fun out of something as my own way of keeping myself away from anxiety, but try to make sure that you are someone who is doing well. I just gotta handle somehow the foolish things of society. It is still one of the better attitudes to have rather than being constantly upset and giving the voice about it and identifying yourself with it. A somewhat more acceptable attitude is what you are looking for I guess and this could be a fine example, if not more. Maybe think about it yourself that what kind of attitude could be better than your own with the toxicity.

Darkmind12126/27/2015, 12:11:51 PM1 votes

Dude I will tell you what I tell everyone else. Just leave before you feel the anger get replaced by depression. We all no mater how strong break sooner or later.