i wanted to share these 2 incidents and how should i handle them in the future

ok here goes

1. so I was playing a blind pick and I think call order is what determines what lanes you go in so I joined room first ,and I call top lock my champion but someone picks yasuo and says "I'm top" I thought he maybe joined room first and I was supposed to go somewhere else but I checked chat and I joined before him so I was forced to go jungle with a non-meta jungler I know blind pick is a place where you can go with any champ in any lane BUT THAT'S NOT THE ISSUE the guy took my lane he could have gone yasuo adc I don't give a shit but he took my lane so I wrote in all chat that I wont gank top and I wont help yasuo no one answered so I guess it was "silence is consent" so a few minutes in yasuo was losing against pantheon and they went in the river I was killing scuttle crab and their jungle and mid came to help, I was low and I couldn't help so i wrote that I wont help him, and oddly enough I passed by the fight no one targeted me and let me go,yasuo was gangbanged and said that I was unbelievable, fuck that we still won and yasuo was crying and I was so happy cuz he became salty

2. I got the same treatment as the first incident I call a lane it gets stolen by jinx and blitz here is what they said exactly "we are bot premade go another lane kid" , again fuck that I go kog jungle and I said in all chat I wont gank bot lane EVER and I said to their jungle CAMP their ass and we lost but I was satisfied if I locke bot and said "I call first adc" they would have gon duo top and left me as solo adc

now I will say something I DONT GIVE A FUCK IF YOU THINK I AM TRASH OR IF I GET 10000000000000000000 DOWNVOTES IF YOU TAKE MY LANE AND I GO JUNGLE OR WHATEVER ROLE I PLAY I WILL MAKE YOU SUFFER

here it is in all caps so everyone would see it too bad there isn't another way to make suffer larger