I don't understand.

Mods removed 2 of my comments on a post relating to someone passing away, the FIRST comment on the post was heavily downvoted for no apparent reason and I was confused, maybe at first, I thought it was because they used the wrong gender, and then, if they probably edited the comment. I said the first thing and then asked about the 2nd thing. Yet my comments were removed? Wtf did I violate??