THE biggest problem with this community

Porollelogram··7 votes·2,193 views
Generation Cry Baby: Why Millennials Are a F**king Joke

This article basically pegs 80% of you. If you all are gonna be so sensitive and make a habit of taking everything personal over the internet, then we have a pretty crappy future as a country (US). I mean when you go to work, and you find out you messed up something, and your boss start yelling at you, are you just gonna go: "I'm gonna report you! Where's the mute button? Lel it's just a job bro, chill out. Stop being so salty/butthurt. You mad bro?" You will get fired lol so yeah, get thicker skin, I'm pretty sure we've all been called stupid before, just because you're on a game doesn't mean you should overreact to it and abuse this god awful report system.

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EvilDustMan8 votes

I guess I could take it as reasonable and we could have a thoughtful and well put discussion about the current college crisis and how we as a society are trying to deal with positive reinforcement and emotional troubles.

Except all your replies are sarcastic, aggressive, and you fall back to the 'kids' and 'real world' and 'get out of your mom's basement' stuff quickly, showing you aren't actually willing to have an argument, you just want to call everyone children and then call any criticism of your point a 'victory'.

When you want to have an actual argument and want to have a reasonable discussion about the possibility our generation might be too thin-skinned, we can have one. Otherwise, your thinly veiled trolling is tiring.

Necronarch1 votes

If you want to take a more serious tone about it, millennials expect everything to be given to them, and they think anyone who is in their way is a bully or is abusing them. Literally none of them have any backbone or work ethic of any sort, and a lot of it stems from their social habits, which brings online interactions into play. They grow up thinking "if some random guy over the internet insults me over a game I can report him". And that translates into how they think about the real world. I mean there are people who LEGITIMATELY CARE about how many snaps they have on Snapchat. I mean, SERIOUSLY?

TeCoolMage3 votes

And that translates into how they think about the real world

That's not at all up for you to decide or say, especially without any empirical evidence

Doctor Jarvis7 votes

I'm pretty sure that most people of this opinion are just the biggest fucking assholes ever and THEMSELVES are lashing out because they're feeling attacked. And actually, in the scenario you describe, there are ACTUALLY WAYS TO REPORT YOUR BOSS FOR BEING A DICK. Like, in real life, there's an HR firm for this exact fucking reason. I think the problem is that at some point we made people believe that everyone is entitled to their opinion and they could say whatever because hey, its just their opinion. But the world has never worked this way and sometimes you need to keep your fucking mouth shut and NOT be a dick

Necronarch1 votes

The problem is, 80% of the people on league, will report for something that wouldn't even be an issue in the real world. But hey, you wanna miss the point entirely then fine, good luck.

Doctor Jarvis4 votes

No, but see, that's not true. People being unapologetic assholes has ALWAYS been a problem, but before it was pretty much like "oh, fuck that dude then" and then that dude would die in a corner quietly, because no one cared about him because he was an asshole. Is it something of serious consequence? No, of course not, but people CHOOSING not to associate themselves with unapologetic assholes and trying their very best to force them to the margins of society has always been a thing, because nobody likes an unapologetic asshole

Necronarch1 votes

My point is, people used to curse eachother out in online gaming, and they would be fine. But now, you can't even ask them to build a certain item during a match without them reporting you. MILLENNIALS ARE WHINEY CRYBABIES WHO ARE NOT PREPARED FOR REAL LIFE. Get? Got it? Good

Necronarch1 votes

If you dont have the self esteem to ignore someone over the internet, then wow. GOOD LUCK

Doctor Jarvis2 votes

Alright, I'm going to TRY to make this clear for you.

If there's a guy (let's say his name is Rob) who you play basketball with, and every time he wins he gets in your face, tells you your game is the worst he's ever seen, and that you're a %%%got for not being as good as he is, eventually you're not only going to stop playing basketball with him, you're probably going to take steps to avoid interacting with him in the future. Because even though you can TOTALLY ignore his being an asshole all the time, inevitably its easier to just...not. In a community, if enough people observe Rob being an asshole, they will also take steps to avoid him. **Now, that does suck for Rob, especially since, once again, his behavior was 100% ignorable, but he went into this community knowing goddamn well that behaving in this fashion could result in something like this. ** Now, let's apply this to an internet community, like, hypothetically, League of Legends. Once again, Rob is just this huge asshole in every game he goes into. Nobody likes him. So they take steps to warn the community of how much of an asshole Rob is. Eventually, Riot (there's, uh, no real life analog for Riot...a group mentality, maybe?) will tell Rob he's not allowed to play anymore. Now, that does suck for Rob, especially since, once again, his behavior was 100% ignorable, but he went into this community knowing goddamn well that behaving in this fashion could result in something like this.

If anything, this is a PRIMER for how to deal with real people in real life.

darkmatchwaldo2 votes

Except this game isn't real life so of course i'm gonna report people for things that aren't an issue in real life.

Nobody can intentionally feed in real life. Nobody can assist the enemy team in real life. Nobody can AFK in real life and leave your entire team to the wolves. It doesn't seem to me that you have much of a point to miss, it seems to be just angry venting.

MilfHuntUnitXJ91 votes

wait so you think this post was made because nothing happens when somebody gets banned? As if years of gameplay can't be simply burnt because I called somebody a %%%got for dropping F bombs on me because I made a stale play? Dude, just accept the fact that you and 80% of this player base are bitch made and become vindictive little hypocrites because they got cursed at.

EvilDustMan4 votes

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wait so you think this post was made because nothing happens when somebody gets banned? As if years of gameplay can't be simply burnt because I called somebody a %%%got for dropping F bombs on me because I made a stale play? Dude, just accept the fact that you and 80% of this player base are bitch made and become vindictive little hypocrites because they got cursed at.

That's your own damn fault, now isn't it?

Doctor Jarvis2 votes

You don't get banned for calling one dude a %%%got, you get banned for calling like 10 dudes in ten different games %%%gots and probably more (because toxicity doesn't happen in single units like that in anyone's experience). And at that point Riot ABSOLUTELY has the authority to tell you to stop playing their fucking game.

Nibbly Jimbles5 votes

There is a fine line between "being yelled at by your boss" and "bullying". If your boss yells at you, as long as he's not sending death threats, saying he'll kill you and rape your mother etc., it's perfectly fine and acceptable, and anyone who is offended by that should get a thicker skin. Of course, if he was actually saying any of that, then it would be a good reason to report him to authorities. This is no different in League of Legends. If my teammate yells at me for missing a skillshot or getting caught out, not warding enough, etc., as long as they're not actually bullying me (as mentioned before), then this is perfectly fine. The problem is, most of the stuff that goes on in League IS actual bullying, and this does need to be reported.

TL;DR: There is a difference between "WTF Thresh you missed that point-blank hook u noob" and "Thresh, I hope you get shot in your retarded head and die in a hole with brain cancer" which you seem to fail to realize.

darkmatchwaldo5 votes

Except real life and this game are different?

Get over yourself man. You seem to be awfully sensitive to all these people who "take everything personally"

Here's another solution, stop being a salty dickhead :OOOOO

Necronarch1 votes

Oh salty, another sign of an uneducated person. Let me know when you have something original to say.

darkmatchwaldo2 votes

The only thing worse than someone who complains about everything, is someone who complains about people complaining. Is this really what you're doing with your time...? That's almost really sad.

You're the one without anything original to say, all you're doing is spouting lines from this poorly written article at people.

Necronarch1 votes

I'm spouting lines? I haven't quoted it even once. Are you high? I've had this opinion for a while, this article just bolsters it. But why am I even talking to someone who actually uses the term "salty" and thinks the are an evolved life form. Go back to school lol

darkmatchwaldo2 votes

Yeah i use the term salty, so does most of this community. I never claimed that i was any better than you. Although what i find hilarious is how you're being overly sensitive to all these people calling you out. You're being a massive hypocrite and you don't even realize it.

Ionian4 votes

I prefer to be that guy who just doesn't care. About anything.

PDE5 Inhibitors4 votes

Not even Ahri?

Necronarch2 votes

^ This guy, you're cool

Ionian1 votes

She isn't even real...

TeCoolMage1 votes

But what if Ahri was real?

PDE5 Inhibitors1 votes

Not with that attitude.

Also, what do you mean by "real"?

Stephenizgod3 votes

Except you aren't my boss, you are just some asshole yelling at me over a freaking video game... So enjoy being reported...

Necronarch1 votes

Problem is, no matter how you say it, or what you say. If it is negative it is viewed as yelling, because you have no backbone. People are going to "yell" at you over "not as important" stuff throughout your entire life. You gonna report them? Your wife will complain about something that literally DOES NOT MATTER. But you're just gonna report her and dismiss her huh? Yeah, gl being single after that.

Stephenizgod4 votes

You missed my point... My boss can yell at me, he gives me money; my wife can yell at me, she gives me love... You are a stranger, you have no right to yell at me because you give me nothing but regret that i decided to play the game... Honestly i don't get upset over toxicity because i grew up with a ton of siblings but people who try to justify it need to grow up.

Necronarch1 votes

My point is, your self esteem is so low that you would let a STRANGER affect how you feel, but you wouldn't feel the same if it were your boss or your wife? HMMMMMMMMMMMMM makes sort of sense?

Stephenizgod3 votes

No. If you hate getting wet, is it because your skin is too sensitive or you are afraid of water? No, its just because you don't like getting wet, its the same with being insulted i just don't like it, it doesn't really effect me.

Necronarch1 votes

If your boss yells at you you're not gonna like it, but I guess you can just report him. Good luck keeping a job though

Stephenizgod2 votes

No I do better at my job so i don't get fired, hopefully this also stops the yelling... Again you can't compare this game to a job, two different situations with nothing in common. See i actually care what my boss thinks because it effect my life, i do not care what you or any other toxic person thinks because you do not effect my life. That doesn't mean i am ok with it though, so i report and move on. If anything you are the one who is throwing a fit right now, you can't handle someone disagreeing with you so you try to insult them on a personal level lol, unfortunately for you i rather enjoy these discussions in my free time. So im looking forward to your response :)

TeCoolMage2 votes

Tolerance doesn't excuse punishment

Necronarch1 votes

Have I once complained about the punishment? hm? no? ok. If I go "man that was a dumb play ezeal". I'll get reported. THAT's the point here, everyone is so friggin' sensitive. Difference is, while I may get irritated with someone, I'll send a shot back and not even report them for "bullying" me. I've probably only reported people like 100 times over 3 years, and most of those are for AFKs.

TeCoolMage2 votes

reported people like 100 times over 3 years, and most of those are for AFKs.

Chill it's just a game, who cares if people left you to 4v5? Wow so insensitive because illuminati made the report system, gg.

Jubbinaut3 votes

Since the other thread was locked, allow me to repeat:

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I mean when you go to work, and you find out you messed up something, and your boss start yelling at you, are you just gonna go: "I'm gonna report you! Where's the mute button? Lel it's just a job bro, chill out. Stop being so salty/butthurt. You mad bro?"

I'm sorry, are you my boss? Do you have some position of authority over me, my life, or my livelihood?

No?

Then I don't need to put up with you being a jerk, do I?

Necronarch1 votes

My point is, if you're letting someone over the internet, who is part of your life for a grand total of maybe 50 minutes affect you SO much that you have to report them. You've got problems.

Jubbinaut2 votes

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My point is, if you're letting someone over the internet, who is part of your life for a grand total of maybe 50 minutes affect you SO much that you have to report them. You've got problems.

You seem to think that it "affects" me in some significant way. That's a pretty silly assumption.

Toxic players affect me no more than your ridiculous rant does. Hell, I don't even care that much about most jerks in real life, much less in League.

But just because they don't affect me much doesn't mean I want them around - this is my free time, my "me" time. I don't get much of it, between my fiancee and my job, so when I do have some time, I want to enjoy it without some random jerk getting in the way of it.

Out of curiosity, how old are you?

TeCoolMage3 votes

"You need to stop being offended by me verbally abusing you because I'm offended by your reports!"

Awkward Couch3 votes

If you want to have a serious discussion about this alright let's have one. First I do agree with you, to a point but I really disagree with the argument and the link you bring up.

Let's start with the link you posted in the original post. It's just a rant from a random person, which is fine, but even the argumentation in that post is weak at best. The original link just talks all about one example that you can see here for those of you who want to read it. This article does a good job of explaining why these millennials need to have some thicker skin. The problem with the link you posted is that it takes that one example and stretches it way too thin. The OP of the link you posted goes from, college students having nervous breakdowns and are less able to receive feedback because of fear of failure, to being offended by everything. To me this seems like a stretch for this type of argument. The other problem that I have with the original link is that she makes the argument that the newest generation is even worse. The problem is the author of the link is a millennial herself, she has nothing to compare it to other than her own generation. You can't say that the generation previous is better when she never experienced the older generation. If we look at something like teen pregnancy, something that older generations is worse than when they were young, is actually going down.

If you all are gonna be so sensitive and make a habit of taking everything personal over the internet, then we have a pretty crappy future

You are absolutely correct. we should not be taking things so personal, especially over the internet. But this can be really hard to do, but as a generation we should learn to do it.

In another thread you talked about people caring about how many snap chat friends they have, I'm not sure what this has to do with League but I agree it's stupid.

"I'm gonna report you! Where's the mute button? Lel it's just a job bro, chill out. Stop being so salty/butthurt. You mad bro?"

These do get really annoying. A lot of these are just really counterproductive and do nothing. I personally haven't seen a lot of these but when they do happen they tend to stick with you. It's the same with league. You don't typically have many bad games, but when you do they really stick with you.

I'm pretty sure we've all been called stupid before, just because you're on a game doesn't mean you should overreact to it

We have and this is a good example of what we should be just ignoring. The problem I have with this is, being called stupid is actually really mild, I usually get the "kill yourself you'd be doing the world a favor". That shit is not acceptable. Even outside the video game you can't say what you want without consequences, and this is where I think the argument you presented starts to fall apart.

In the US, we absolutely have the freedom of speech, but this does not mean you can say whatever you want without consequences. The obvious example of this is, you can't yell fire in a crowded theater. While calling someone stupid wouldn't usually get you into trouble, some things that have been said in chat, "kill yourself you'd be doing the world a favor" would definitely get you into trouble.

In another thread you claim that millennials want everything handed to them. I'm not sure what you are basing this on, but for argument's sake let's assume that's true. Well then you are blaming the symptom of the true problem. I'm not going to claim I know the root of the problem, but I will try to provide some answers.

First we have to look at the parents. In the original link it talks about a teacher getting e-mails from parents about their kids' grades. The kids may have asked the parents to intervene, and that would be a problem. However I think the bigger problem is the parents enabling the kids to do this. The kid can argue with the teacher all they want but that doesn't mean that the parents have to join in. If you want to talk about millennials getting everything handed to them, we have to look at who handed them everything. Spoilers it's the parents.

Another thing we should look at is in the link I provided about college students. The article claims that anxiety and depression is at an all time high due to lack of being able to smooth out emotions. I feel that a lot of these are college specific but they are concerns none the less. But we should look to the fact that college is stressful and absolutely fucking expensive. The average college student will leave with a debt of about 28,000$ source. That's an expensive investment for no guarantee of a good, well paying job, or even a job in which you would be able to pay back your loans. That would cause anxiety and a lot of pressure on anyone.

We could also look to the poor mental health care system in the US. That seems to be something that politicians want to blame for all these shootings so why is it still so poor? If we aren't able to handle ourselves when life gets rough then why aren't we being prepared for it?

Porollelogram2 votes

I mean, I started playing online multiplayer with Halo 3, and if I didn't get cussed out in EVERY game then something was wrong. It's just part of the game. You move on once the game is over. I really miss the days where one guy will threaten your entire family, and you'll make some stupid joke about his mom, and then after the game is over you go your separate ways and don't even care because you both know it's over the internet and none of that is gonna happen. The good 'ol days

DJColdCutz2 votes

I don't even care about the up/down votes on these boards, but jeesh, we can't even joke around without getting down voted lol. They're in for a world of hurt in the real world. Hate to break it to them, but college safe spaces are not going to spread to the real world..

Porollelogram2 votes

The world isn't rated E for everyone.

DJColdCutz2 votes

Rated M for very adult.

TeCoolMage2 votes

It's not rated P for Porollelogram either so stop acting like the community should bend to your morals and standards instead of what riot, or society in general, sets down for us

Stephenizgod3 votes

Yea but then you grow up and act like an adult

Necronarch1 votes

You realize that, being an M rated game, mostly adults were playing it. Hmmmm, seems to me that you're just a hypersensitive flower living in the wrong world.

Stephenizgod4 votes

seems to me you still need to grow up

Necronarch1 votes

Such a well formed brain you have!

Stephenizgod2 votes

Thanks, i like it too

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