THE biggest problem with this community

Porollelogram·12/4/2015, 12:43:07 AM·7 votes·2,193 views
Generation Cry Baby: Why Millennials Are a F**king Joke

This article basically pegs 80% of you. If you all are gonna be so sensitive and make a habit of taking everything personal over the internet, then we have a pretty crappy future as a country (US). I mean when you go to work, and you find out you messed up something, and your boss start yelling at you, are you just gonna go: "I'm gonna report you! Where's the mute button? Lel it's just a job bro, chill out. Stop being so salty/butthurt. You mad bro?" You will get fired lol so yeah, get thicker skin, I'm pretty sure we've all been called stupid before, just because you're on a game doesn't mean you should overreact to it and abuse this god awful report system.

91 Comments

EvilDustMan12/4/2015, 1:34:29 AM8 votes

I guess I could take it as reasonable and we could have a thoughtful and well put discussion about the current college crisis and how we as a society are trying to deal with positive reinforcement and emotional troubles.

Except all your replies are sarcastic, aggressive, and you fall back to the 'kids' and 'real world' and 'get out of your mom's basement' stuff quickly, showing you aren't actually willing to have an argument, you just want to call everyone children and then call any criticism of your point a 'victory'.

When you want to have an actual argument and want to have a reasonable discussion about the possibility our generation might be too thin-skinned, we can have one. Otherwise, your thinly veiled trolling is tiring.

Doctor Jarvis12/4/2015, 1:35:10 AM7 votes

I'm pretty sure that most people of this opinion are just the biggest fucking assholes ever and THEMSELVES are lashing out because they're feeling attacked. And actually, in the scenario you describe, there are ACTUALLY WAYS TO REPORT YOUR BOSS FOR BEING A DICK. Like, in real life, there's an HR firm for this exact fucking reason. I think the problem is that at some point we made people believe that everyone is entitled to their opinion and they could say whatever because hey, its just their opinion. But the world has never worked this way and sometimes you need to keep your fucking mouth shut and NOT be a dick

darkmatchwaldo12/4/2015, 1:35:23 AM5 votes

Except real life and this game are different?

Get over yourself man. You seem to be awfully sensitive to all these people who "take everything personally"

Here's another solution, stop being a salty dickhead :OOOOO

Nibbly Jimbles12/4/2015, 12:57:34 AM5 votes

There is a fine line between "being yelled at by your boss" and "bullying". If your boss yells at you, as long as he's not sending death threats, saying he'll kill you and rape your mother etc., it's perfectly fine and acceptable, and anyone who is offended by that should get a thicker skin. Of course, if he was actually saying any of that, then it would be a good reason to report him to authorities. This is no different in League of Legends. If my teammate yells at me for missing a skillshot or getting caught out, not warding enough, etc., as long as they're not actually bullying me (as mentioned before), then this is perfectly fine. The problem is, most of the stuff that goes on in League IS actual bullying, and this does need to be reported.

TL;DR: There is a difference between "WTF Thresh you missed that point-blank hook u noob" and "Thresh, I hope you get shot in your retarded head and die in a hole with brain cancer" which you seem to fail to realize.

Ionian12/4/2015, 1:14:18 AM4 votes

I prefer to be that guy who just doesn't care. About anything.

Awkward Couch12/4/2015, 3:12:33 AM3 votes

If you want to have a serious discussion about this alright let's have one. First I do agree with you, to a point but I really disagree with the argument and the link you bring up.

Let's start with the link you posted in the original post. It's just a rant from a random person, which is fine, but even the argumentation in that post is weak at best. The original link just talks all about one example that you can see here for those of you who want to read it. This article does a good job of explaining why these millennials need to have some thicker skin. The problem with the link you posted is that it takes that one example and stretches it way too thin. The OP of the link you posted goes from, college students having nervous breakdowns and are less able to receive feedback because of fear of failure, to being offended by everything. To me this seems like a stretch for this type of argument. The other problem that I have with the original link is that she makes the argument that the newest generation is even worse. The problem is the author of the link is a millennial herself, she has nothing to compare it to other than her own generation. You can't say that the generation previous is better when she never experienced the older generation. If we look at something like teen pregnancy, something that older generations is worse than when they were young, is actually going down.

If you all are gonna be so sensitive and make a habit of taking everything personal over the internet, then we have a pretty crappy future

You are absolutely correct. we should not be taking things so personal, especially over the internet. But this can be really hard to do, but as a generation we should learn to do it.

In another thread you talked about people caring about how many snap chat friends they have, I'm not sure what this has to do with League but I agree it's stupid.

"I'm gonna report you! Where's the mute button? Lel it's just a job bro, chill out. Stop being so salty/butthurt. You mad bro?"

These do get really annoying. A lot of these are just really counterproductive and do nothing. I personally haven't seen a lot of these but when they do happen they tend to stick with you. It's the same with league. You don't typically have many bad games, but when you do they really stick with you.

I'm pretty sure we've all been called stupid before, just because you're on a game doesn't mean you should overreact to it

We have and this is a good example of what we should be just ignoring. The problem I have with this is, being called stupid is actually really mild, I usually get the "kill yourself you'd be doing the world a favor". That shit is not acceptable. Even outside the video game you can't say what you want without consequences, and this is where I think the argument you presented starts to fall apart.

In the US, we absolutely have the freedom of speech, but this does not mean you can say whatever you want without consequences. The obvious example of this is, you can't yell fire in a crowded theater. While calling someone stupid wouldn't usually get you into trouble, some things that have been said in chat, "kill yourself you'd be doing the world a favor" would definitely get you into trouble.

In another thread you claim that millennials want everything handed to them. I'm not sure what you are basing this on, but for argument's sake let's assume that's true. Well then you are blaming the symptom of the true problem. I'm not going to claim I know the root of the problem, but I will try to provide some answers.

First we have to look at the parents. In the original link it talks about a teacher getting e-mails from parents about their kids' grades. The kids may have asked the parents to intervene, and that would be a problem. However I think the bigger problem is the parents enabling the kids to do this. The kid can argue with the teacher all they want but that doesn't mean that the parents have to join in. If you want to talk about millennials getting everything handed to them, we have to look at who handed them everything. Spoilers it's the parents.

Another thing we should look at is in the link I provided about college students. The article claims that anxiety and depression is at an all time high due to lack of being able to smooth out emotions. I feel that a lot of these are college specific but they are concerns none the less. But we should look to the fact that college is stressful and absolutely fucking expensive. The average college student will leave with a debt of about 28,000$ source. That's an expensive investment for no guarantee of a good, well paying job, or even a job in which you would be able to pay back your loans. That would cause anxiety and a lot of pressure on anyone.

We could also look to the poor mental health care system in the US. That seems to be something that politicians want to blame for all these shootings so why is it still so poor? If we aren't able to handle ourselves when life gets rough then why aren't we being prepared for it?

Stephenizgod12/4/2015, 1:18:35 AM3 votes

Except you aren't my boss, you are just some asshole yelling at me over a freaking video game... So enjoy being reported...

Jubbinaut12/4/2015, 1:42:58 AM3 votes

Since the other thread was locked, allow me to repeat:

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I mean when you go to work, and you find out you messed up something, and your boss start yelling at you, are you just gonna go: "I'm gonna report you! Where's the mute button? Lel it's just a job bro, chill out. Stop being so salty/butthurt. You mad bro?"

I'm sorry, are you my boss? Do you have some position of authority over me, my life, or my livelihood?

No?

Then I don't need to put up with you being a jerk, do I?

TeCoolMage12/4/2015, 2:01:10 AM3 votes

"You need to stop being offended by me verbally abusing you because I'm offended by your reports!"

Porollelogram12/4/2015, 12:51:45 AM2 votes

I mean, I started playing online multiplayer with Halo 3, and if I didn't get cussed out in EVERY game then something was wrong. It's just part of the game. You move on once the game is over. I really miss the days where one guy will threaten your entire family, and you'll make some stupid joke about his mom, and then after the game is over you go your separate ways and don't even care because you both know it's over the internet and none of that is gonna happen. The good 'ol days