Love Getting Suspended For Flaming Trolling Players

Both. Raging only makes the situation worse

I don't see a both option. Your poll is flawed.

There is no reason it needs to be limited to one or the other. Both diminish the game for people, both should be punished.

you didnt make a 3rd option called "both"

There needs to be a both button. However, retaliation is unacceptable, and there is never an excuse to flame. If someone strolling, stay calm and report them, otherwise you just end up being the one punished. Don't let them get to you.