Chat bans are _______!

I'm gonna start out by saying ive been playing league since s2.....I have seen this game evolve into what it is today. I managed to rise to gold level playing casually. I watch strategy vids and catch some intense footage every now and then. Understanding how to play from behind and come back and win the game on occasion even with a really unskilled player. I find is the difference between a good league player and bronzie. I practice playing norms a few games before i delve into ranked all warmed up. All things considered here I find myself on the more hyper competitive side and i do not see anything wrong with that. When your adc goes 1/22 or your mid feeds an enemy lb or zed , or that mundo goes where he pleases things start not to be so fun anymore on top of that, there are a majority of players that simply do not understand the game itself. From my many years of playing league I find the only objective most players try to do is get fed. Screw your team, screw getting drag or rift herald... im just gonna get fed and wreck the enemy team...I believe this is what many players consider to be "carrying" when instead they are simply setting the rest of the team behind and more prone to 3 or 4 man ganks. I believe this train of thought dominates bronze through gold. Now....where does this fit into chat bans...well since Illaio has been released any time the enemy is allowed to pick her she gets ridiculously fed and wreck everyone with her ridiculous kit. It is actually business as usual with any new champ...tbh now...I got banned for saying things like you should feel bad for playing illaio or picking ahri into lb was a really stupid idea...or hey its hard to play vayne right? thats why your s3 and 1/22 ? you buy your acc? out of sheer frustration. Now mind you 99% of my in game msgs are simply trying to rally my team to victory and try to keep them from going into unwarded jungle 30 mins into the game with no sign of the enemy...things that should be obvious...the rest of the time i ping but I get chat banned for saying 1 negative thing in a match?????????? guess what. ITS CALLED BEING HUMAN. I understand there are small children that play this game i'm getting to high silver from b5 on my way to plat this season because i got royally screwed in promos and ended up facing some very very skilled oponents several games in a row but with a little luck from the que gods and some determination, and hundreds of games with my pref champs and lets be real here i really dont think there are too many 12 year olds that have the mental capacity to play league on that level. I truly believe after seeing so much positive and negative behaviour on league that honestly people are gonna be people no matter what you do to try and alleviate the negativity, and MOST people ban people out of SPITE, they don't even report for the RIGHT REASONS they just REPORT JUST TO REPORT BECAUSE THEY CAN, and your tribunal is laughable cause i am sure some latte sipping dnugget bored at work is sitting there spamming the guilty button...there is no real justice here. Untill you start SERIOUSLY weeding out players that feed every other game from queing ranked the negativity will continue because that is the real problem with league there are no good games anymore because of said players...its just one team rolls the other there are no back n forth games anymore in the current meta. Items like dfg allowed players to both snowball, but they also allowed someone behind to catch back up in the game. It is not just the itemization it is the big picture...I've said it before and I'll keep saying it. FEEDERS should be the #1 ban targets not verbal abusers...ive seen some doozies in my day and spammers, but if they don't have enough common sense to stay away from a fed assassin or back off from a fight that your obviously going to lose, ward lane if a jungler continues to gank then you don't deserve to be able to report anyone.....or be in the same game with people who do understand. A popular opinion? maybe not....but it's the real one, and I think it's high time league got real. This game is becoming a sport not just a game and i don't see NBA players reporting each other or NFL players putting tape over each others mouths for talking trash, that would just be silly right? Players that repeatedly do bad get BENCHED and are unable to play for a period of time and made to practice. If you feed more than 3 games in a row you should be restricted from ranked play for 10 games per loss due to feed so 30 won games of normal draft should be enough practice to get someone back in the game. which totals out to 50-60 because we all know the que gods like to keep things at 50% and with that experience I bet more players would take ranked MORE SERIOUSLY instead of queing up with no intention on being a team member. and helping, not debilitating your team, and some would just not play ranked at all after being banned like that. Which I believe is good for the majority of the people who do want to win and rise there elo. It's one thing to lose because you got outplayed, it's another to lose because 1 person simply makes it a 6v4 after 40 minutes of doing your best and still losing because said unskilled team member fed the wrong person.. Anyone with a pulse would get frustrated with that. Especially if it happens more than twice in a row. 3 strikes your out...3 feeds, 3 afks, 3 everything magic number.