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girl destroyer··4 votes·2,102 views

So recently i said to sb in a game you know you are bad and you play like an inter not any offence i just told him that you know you are bad player and asked him if he gets boost i am not offensive or what i am not even using inapropriate words he was calling me toxic tho and asked my teamates to report me . So my question is is this considered flame because really thats just my opinion about his skills i am not offensive in any way in my mind this is like calling someone a good player but the opposite is there a way this is reportable or even bbanable? thanks for your time item 3157

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GatekeeperTDS6 votes

you know you are bad and you play like an inter not any offence i just told him that you know you are bad player and asked him if he gets boost

Yes, calling someone bad player and flaming them over and over will get you reported and punished.

girl destroyer2 votes

but that is not flame its just my opinion about his skillset its not offensive

GatekeeperTDS3 votes

It's not offensive, but it's still negative chat. Stop verbally abusing your teammates.

Byteblitz2 votes

i think it depends a lot on the context.

like there is a way to use it as a flame or being a comment/legit question. approach is key.

there are people who tell me im a bad player and should just quit or accusing me of being bad on purpose etc etc. that... was absolutely negative way.

but i get what your saying, and how you had suspicions or may have been wondering what was up etc etc.

GatekeeperTDS3 votes

Bring it down to a different level, then.

"Will what I type next contribute to winning the game?" If answer is No, stop.

Byteblitz2 votes

good point.

i think open asking if they are having trouble is a good way to fish for what is wrong, and perhaps learn a way you can help them do better. etc.

Telephone Booth2 votes

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good point.

i think open asking if they are having trouble is a good way to fish for what is wrong, and perhaps learn a way you can help them do better. etc.

I would avoid that. Thats a passive aggressive way to say someone is playing poorly. Yes, they are THAT strict. You wont get punished immediately for it if you get reported, but it could lead to a punishment eventually. Not to mention what is said after askingthat question could quickly turn into an arguement, which could also get you punished and them.

Byteblitz2 votes

eep... didnt think it would be taken like that... im usually the worst player, so needing to help a struggling player doesn't come up much. im judging based on what i would find offensive but i have a pretty thick skin cuz im just used to being the problem.... (clarification, problem play wise not attitude wise),

im trying to brainstorm a better way they could have gone about it that wasn't offensive for the original poster, but it doesn't seem to be doable...

Telephone Booth2 votes

{quoted}

eep... didnt think it would be taken like that... im usually the worst player, so needing to help a struggling player doesn't come up much. im judging based on what i would find offensive but i have a pretty thick skin cuz im just used to being the problem.... (clarification, problem play wise not attitude wise),

im trying to brainstorm a better way they could have gone about it that wasn't offensive for the original poster, but it doesn't seem to be doable...

Okay yeah I hear you. Most people just are looking for a way to be offended in game, so im just trying to look out for ya. I would probably say to myself "ya fuck you" in my head, and not respond. I wouldnt report for it, but I would take it as you being a smart ass and just ignore it lol.

Byteblitz1 votes

i appreciate your honesty about it, its better than in future me or someone else who took my advice putting their foot in their mouth lol

Telephone Booth1 votes

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i appreciate your honesty about it, its better than in future me or someone else who took my advice putting their foot in their mouth lol

Lol also i mean, idk if thats how everyone would take it of course. But when you've been playing for a few years its like, ive heard all the tips, how do i answer that question andwhat possible advice could you give me that i havent already heard? But thats just me, and im a bit of an asshole so others of course might actually want some advice. I just think its a 'better safe than sorry' type situation. Best to say nothing unless asked. Especially if the person just made a mistake or got outplayed and are already tilted.

Byteblitz1 votes

i dunno, like maybe they have a bad match up and would appreciate a lane switch? i know if im vs pantheon or olaf top im screweeed.

or maybe they need a gank, or for me to place some shrooms for them in specific places for them?

or maybe they need a red or blue, we can go on a little trip to steal the enemies one. =3 or gank the jungler if we know where they are, from the shroom placements.

i wasnt thinking in terms of giving them game advice, but rather them tell me how i can help them out.

Byteblitz1 votes

in my head id be like "i see your having some trouble x lane, anyway i can help you out? what do you need?"

Telephone Booth1 votes

{quoted}

i dunno, like maybe they have a bad match up and would appreciate a lane switch? i know if im vs pantheon or olaf top im screweeed.

or maybe they need a gank, or for me to place some shrooms for them in specific places for them?

or maybe they need a red or blue, we can go on a little trip to steal the enemies one. =3 or gank the jungler if we know where they are, from the shroom placements.

i wasnt thinking in terms of giving them game advice, but rather them tell me how i can help them out.

Ahh yeah gotta love a red or blue buff xD

Telephone Booth1 votes

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but that is not flame its just my opinion about his skillset its not offensive

Its an insult. Opinions do have the ability to insult people lol. In fact everyinsult is an opinion. "You r%%%%%" -opinion. "Garbage player" -opinion. "Kys" -encouraging self harm, not an insult, not an opinion lol. Idk how you havent figured that out yet. Like it being an opinion makes it automatically not an insult lol the fuck.

girl destroyer3 votes

Thank you all for your replies i get it anything that could make your allies tilt or even not perform their best is not good and player who are doing this must be banned that seems right I learned my lesson i am not going to do it again*[sg-kiko]*

Skeleton Matrix3 votes

I told my bot lane to " ward that bush, before the jungler camps bot" they said and i quote, " SHUT THE BLEEP UP NOOB!" also " dont be toxic " they were tilted just from that. soooo saying anything that could make your allies "tilt" is kinda hard to explain . just saying :) [vlad-salute]

Unker1392 votes

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So recently i said to sb in a game you know you are bad and you play like an inter not any offence i just told him that you know you are bad player and asked him if he gets boost i am not offensive or what i am not even using inapropriate words he was calling me toxic tho and asked my teamates to report me . So my question is is this considered flame because really thats just my opinion about his skills i am not offensive in any way in my mind this is like calling someone a good player but the opposite is there a way this is reportable or even bbanable? thanks for your time item 3157

What are you hoping to gain by calling someone bad in game?

girl destroyer2 votes

To let him know that the elo he is playing is not apropriate for him when i join a ranked game i am looking to play my game as good as possibble and also help my teamates win this guy tho was just tower diving when he was 3 lvls behing the guy he was diving ok i get it i can just report him after game bubt that was my only hope he stops doing this i really dont like having this type of player as teamates or enemies when i play in platinum elo i want my teamates and my enemies to be platinum not diamond not gold i just want them to play like the division they are on plays

rujitra1 votes

And what can that player do about his ELO? Is there a way I can change my ELO? Please let me know if I can.

zPOOPz1 votes

Is there a way I can change my ELO? Please let me know if I can.

That depends on if you want to go up or down. If you want to change your ELO downward, the answer is most definitely. If you want to change your ELO upward, the answer is maybe.

Unker1392 votes

[{quoted}](name=girl destroyer,realm=EUNE,application-id=ZGEFLEUQ,discussion-id=Q3KRgsRE,comment-id=00020000,timestamp=2019-07-19T19:45:59.899+0000)

To let him know that the elo he is playing is not apropriate for him when i join a ranked game i am looking to play my game as good as possibble and also help my teamates win this guy tho was just tower diving when he was 3 lvls behing the guy he was diving ok i get it i can just report him after game bubt that was my only hope he stops doing this i really dont like having this type of player as teamates or enemies when i play in platinum elo i want my teamates and my enemies to be platinum not diamond not gold i just want them to play like the division they are on plays

They can't control the game they are put in.

Again...if you are trying to win and help your teammates win, does telling a teammate they are bad help you accomplish this?

Seems to me that you are trying to make it harder for your team to win.

Byteblitz1 votes

or they could have been lagging or some other mishap. sometimes i map click and then look at something at other screen, like item guide, and accidentally do something stupid... X_X

GatekeeperTDS3 votes

You get placed in games with people of the same ELO....

Imperial Pandaa2 votes

Yes, it could still considered flame.

Just because something is your opinion, doesn't mean it also isn't rude.

KVbqbFsC8e1 votes

Yeah, but you'll have to be saying it quite often before you get any punishment for it.

girl destroyer2 votes

But I am not saying it in an offensive way its just my opinion about his playstyle

KVbqbFsC8e2 votes

It doesn't matter "how" you are saying it. If people are reporting you for it, that likely means that it is offensive or annoying to them in some way. The automated system doesn't care what your intentions are, it only cares about the fact that you said it.

girl destroyer1 votes

I really didnt have any bad intetions bbecause i really think that platinum elo players are smart enough to not get mad over such things my intention was to make this player stop playing ranked games because i really thought he was trolling or a momment

Hotarµ1 votes

Even if that's your opinion, it's still disruptive and considered to be against the rules.

If you can't talk to your and give them helpful advice (ie. "Try warding some more, Vlad is roaming a lot" or "Please play a little bit safer, Darius is already super strong") don't talk to them at all. Just say it out loud IRL or bite your tongue.

girl destroyer2 votes

ok you might be right i have no intention to tilt anyone or even to be against the rules of my favourite game thats why i asked here if what i did is correct

BTW:Say it out loud IRL that might work thanks

Telephone Booth1 votes

Lol ya thats against the rules. no one cares about your opinions in a game man, this isnt fucking Twitter. Keep them to yourself. Especially when they involve insulting someone.

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