A problem with prolonging queues

So I have got this problem in game right now that after i got my afk queue prioritizing games complete seems like it got me into more of long queue waiting even after, I also want to shout out that I certenly feel like I do not deserve to get the Queue bonus waiting, off to the point that I got a serious ammount of players who's taken my role/lane intentionally (after I locked in before them to a certain lane and called it out before them as well) so all I did was to wait untill we can make a remake , which is the reason I got this queuing problem from the first place, I would be happy if you guys would help me with this, me and my friends will appreciate it