IM TIRED OF HAVING TO DEAL WITH EITHER AN ADC THAT FEEDS OR JUNGLE THAT DOESNT GANK

WHY IN THE WORLD DO I GET REPORTED FOR ASKING A JUNGLER TO HELP OUT AND EVEN BANNED FOR TELLING HIM TO PLEASE HELP OUT OTHER LANES AS WELL , THIS IS THE SEASON WHERE YOU DONT EVEN NEED TO FARM UP IN JUNGLE AS MUCH AS BEFORE AND THEY END UP USING A LAME EXCUSE SUCH AS I HAVE TO FARM UP AND THE ENEMY JUNGLER HAS ALMOST NO FARM BUT IS KILLING EVERYONE AND PUTTING PRESSURE EVERYWHERE , HOW IN THE WORLD IM THE BAD GUY FOR ASKING HIM TO CONTRIBUTE TO THE OUTCOME OF THE GAME AND TO HELP THE TEAM OUT HOW!?!?!?!?!? AND THE ADC CAN GO 0-10 AND STILL SAY ' I HAVE TO FARM UP ' WHEN WE HAVE THE ENEMIES PUSHING FOR A TURRET , WE NEED A TEAMFIGHT EVEN IF YOU ARE BEHIND YOU HAVE TO BE PART OF IT TO HELP OUT BUT NOOOOOOOOOOOO I GET REPORTED FOR REQUESTING HIM TO GROUP UP AND THE WORSE PART IS ... THAT EVEN AFTER HE TOLD ME TO KILL MYSELF IM THE ONE BEING BANNED FOR SAYING THAT HE DIDNT PLAY GOOD I GAVE HIM THE REASONS WHY AND I ST'ILL GOT BANNED FOR IT . SOMEONE EXPLAIN ME HOW IN THE WORLD AM I THE ONE BEING PUNISHED WHEN I GET ANSWERS SUCH AS jungler : " I DONT GANK ALL GAME IF I DONT WANT TO " adc: " KILL YOURSELF , I HAVE TO FARM UP , HOLD THEM 4 VS 5 , IF NOT WE CAN FF " ... IM DONE IM SIMPLY DONE ... THIS IS JUST SUCH BULLSHIT , EVERYONE CAN STAY WITHOUT CONTRIBUTING TO THE TEAM OR JUST DO WHATEVER THEY PLEASE AND NOBODY GETS PUNISHED ONLY THE GUY WHO ACTUALLY SEES WHATS WRONG AND REQUESTS POLITELY TO GET OUR SHIT TOGETHER SO WE CAN WIN BUT IM THE ONE BEING REPORTED FOR ASKING GROUP UP OR HELP OUT THE TEAM . BEAUTIFUL REPORT SYSTEM , IM SO TIRED OF BEING SO POLITE TO ASSHOLES WHO JUST DONT GIVE A FUCK ABOUT RANKING , THEN WHY IN THE WORLD ARE YOU PLAYING RANKED .