generally the people I see with them play 100's if not more in bot games or play alot of aram matches. Alot aren't "good players" though they just somehow managed to get it leveling up to 30.
The higher up in levels though the less people want to honor, they don't want anything to do with you, but to try again where respect and admiration should be desired is replaced by loathing and self pity its kinda sad.
I think your on the right track though, with
as a jungler the amount of play making you have whether influencing your team mates or the enemy jungler by how good you played and counter jungled. Even though you may lose or may not of been the one to carry the game, thank your team mates and tell them they were amazing call them best riven na if you really want to rub it in, but it will get you one step closer to that ribbon