Chat Restriction!!! ...?

So flaming in 2016 has gotten taken to a new degree. We get people who are like 0-5? wow... watch out for irelia. Then die to something else not relevant to irelia and they are like "Wow gg top lane." I'm confused as to the fact that we are so quickly to flame and blame other players for our mistakes. This gets taken to a new level when the person being flamed defends themselves. All of a sudden the "Good behavior" players show their true colors. "HOW DARE YOU DEFEND YOURSELF, I AM RIGHT, YOU SUCK." It is at this moment... if you don't report them, then the person defending themselves will get reported by a duo and get chat restricted. Which happened to me. In my case, I should have just muted them, instead of calling them MF or looking at his name Jadex3 and calling him JadeB. But it is better if we both shut our mouths and just play. We had a huge potential to win but I lost motivation to play. i didn't report the duo at the end of the game cause I thought it wasn't a big deal but when I started a game I had chat restriction. That's fine for me. 3-5 messages to either communicate and just say "GJ" or simply me saying "Hey I won't do well this game if you ignore my lane." Let this be a lesson that we need to just mute each other if we have something bad to say and let each other play. Teach them how to play, not just say "Wtf you building dude you suck wow". Off topic, talk to the person as if they were in front of you. If you saw me IRL you wouldn't be saying the stuff they said in the game. You'd be teaching me how to play. GL HF BOIS