Why this happens constantly to you? Check these scenarios out:
- someone does bad on your team. You point out they are a noob, they lash back at you, you lash at them. Both get reported at the end
- You might be having a bad game, someone else calls you noob. You try to use your right to defend yourself and lash back at them, you guys have a verbal fight. Both get reported at the end
- Enemy is doing bad and you taunt them by calling them noob. They flame you, you flame them back (dear lord, just play the dam game already). Both get reported at the end.
Any of these sound familiar? Bottom line, if you want the games to be more positive, don't start flaming them, and no need to respond to flames.
Constructive criticism is OK, but don't flame them if they don't follow what you say, as it is hard to change over 1 game. If they flame you, you can ask for a constructive critism instead, but if they don't give you any, don't take it to heart and figure it out yourself. Self analysis and awareness is actually one of the best ways to improve.
Try that out and let us know how it turns out!!