Riot needs to chill and learn the difference between toxic and whats not

okay so i get that riot wants to weed out toxic players from the game. but they need to determine what is really toxic and whats not. like telling your team to kill yourself or calling them garbage trash and to uninstall is obviously toxic but i literally got punished because i was being harassed by my bot lane for not roaming into a 4v2 which they decided to fight for some reason (even though they had 3 heavy cc champs ganking bot) instead of falling back to the tower, after i got a bunch of flame from my ADC i literally only said to him was. "you are thinking with a bronze mentality." and later in the game when we grouped they were 1/9 i mentioned " wow another inting bot big surprise." this is not toxic i dont think. sure its a little derogatory but to get punishment for this while people are calling their team "inbred treefuckers" is pretty messed up. like i believe there is a huge difference between the two and they should be treated separately. l even spoke to riot and he literally said i was being mean and didnt think how it would make the adc feel. like were fucking adults aren't we? if you cannot take a little constructive criticism on the internet then why are you on it? like does everyone in league of legends really need a safe space because they are special snowflakes??? like can people grow up a little bit. i feel like the only way you can not get punished is by simply muting all players in the game and not talking at all because the slightest comment will get you in trouble. its messed up to say the least, riot really needs to focus on the real toxicity thats in most of the games (homophobic remarks, racism, death threats) like thats true toxicity. like they are literally taking away freedom of speech to protect little kids or people with the mentality of little kids when there are way more serious cases to be looked at.