Can't reconnect to my game because the button is gone and now I'm being reported.

I am seriously frustrated. After getting into a game in team builder with my boyfriend, league crashed and closed. I reopened the program, waiting on the log in screen for it to load for a long time, and as soon as I get logged in, there was no reconnect option. I tried logging in and out again. And still no reconnect button, I was even able to start searching for a new match. My boyfriend/ team mate is keeping me updated on what other players are saying. They're decided to report me even though my boyfriend explained the situation and now he is also being targeted for not being able to keep up a solo bot lane as a support. Never mind problematic players, I'm pretty upset about all of this. Compensate me rito. This is ridiculous.