-> No "reconnect to game" button awards me 5x20min Queues.....help.. support ARAM servers plz!!!!!

Here is the deal guys. i got the "reconnecting" message right after loading screen, after summoners spawned.. the moment the game starts basically.

it went on for more than a few secs, so i rebooted right away to try and reconnect ASAP, to not have to make my team wait for too long.

Here is where it gets strange and frustrating..: its the first time this happens, however when i relogged and i did not have a "reconnect to current game" button.. however i did receive a lovely 5 x low priority queues of 20 minutes each.. yeah well.. it comes down to ARAM servers constantly LETTING ME DOWN.

I have been around before dominion first came out, Dear Riot, and i was an ARAM fan way before that.. Please help the new ARAM map servers- with their lag issues, it's a great map, please support the fans who love it, thank you...