As a top laner, I feel like the jungle always comes up here first...TL;DR included.
I have the unfortunate place of having to play top lane because that is where my favorite champions are. I say unfortunate because I feel like sometimes from top lane, there is nothing I can really do to help "carry the game"...that's another conversation though...I wish my favorite champions could play mid lane...
Anyways, I still try play in a way that I can strongly effect the out come of the game. The way I try and do this is by asserting lane dominance and allowing for myself to keep pressure top lane and roam to help my teammates.
I have one little issue, though, it's called a jungler. Now this may be negativity bias or I am just bad, but I always try to play so that I can be successful in my lane. Part of this is keeping a constant watch for the jungler.
One thing that I have noticed is that that guy always comes. ALWAYS. No matter what. I mean, like always. It feels like there is some unwritten jungler code that says "go top plane first, always". What's worse is if they are unsuccessful, they stick around...I can tell because I look at the scoreboard and about a minute or two after they try and they light up on the scoreboard again, they have barely any more farm or kill participation -_-
They come no matter how I play. I mainly play riven so I often try for early pressure and level 2/3 fighting and trading. It's already hard enough that I am trying to get every minion while keeping the pressure off of me from my enemy laner who just wants to miss all the farm and attack me. I'm talking missing entire minion waves of last hits just to trade with me at like level 1....
Anyways the jungler always comes and I need help on how to deal with it. Its gotten so bad that if I don't see the jungler elsewhere and my lane is naturally pushing I pretty much just have to back because guaranteed I am about to get ganked. If I try and stick around for a few more seconds to make the enemy laner dying even more detrimental to him, the jungler is going to be there within 10 seconds. It's like the minute I start to trade with my laner the jungler drops everything and heads top....it makes it extremely difficult for me to "dominate" my lane so I can have a strong influence on the game.
So if I got for level 1-3 cheese/all-in/trading to assert dominance, the jungler will be there.
If I balance the lane and don't put a lot of pressure or dominance and elect to farm, the jungler will be there.
If I am being pushed to my tower for some reason or another, that motherfukcing piece of annoying shit will be there. And then proceed to tower dive me at like level 3....
The best part too, is my jungler never does this. My jungler never does this passive aggressive "camping" that isn't really camping but feels like it is. Like if I don't ask my jungler would never come, but their jungler thinks it's a fucking party up here...
I honestly just do not get it or understand. How do I combat this? It feels like several things happen. Champ select the enemy top laner is like "breh, camp my lane and I will carry". Or they all lolking/lolnexus us in the loading screen then when they load in they say "DUDES, CAMP TOP LANE HARDCORE MANG". Or we get to lane and I literally don't do anything but try for last hits and the enemy top laner starts to bitch and ping and say "HOLY SHET, GET UP HERE AND GANK THIS GUY NOW!" Or when I start to trade with my enemy laner the jungler drops everything, even a half cleared camp, and starts walking up here. Or all of these things happen in the same game....
I also feel like I can never buy enough wards. What's even funnier is I never get to place them. Not because I forget to or am bad. I don't get to because the minion wave is close to my tower, I haven't even pushed, and I go to ward (FIRST THING I DO, I GET BACK AND WARD, THE LAST THING I WAS DOING WAS WALKING TO THE LANE, SO I WASN'T EVEN IN THE LANE) and the enemy jungler is waiting in the bush...as if they were waiting for me to get back to the lane -_- Instead of being productive, they are waiting for me, even when there is no indication that I am a threat.
This even happens if I get behind or am shut down, that jungler will not leave...ever.
I think you guys get the gist of my issue. What do I do? Are there better ward spots, am I playing wrongly, am I not buying enough wards, how can I improve this situation so that I can better help my team win?
TL;DR : JUNGLER WON'T LEAVE TOP LANE, WHAT DO? HOW TO WIN?