4/0/8 or 21/12/5 (Advice from more experienced players appreciated)?
So, for context, I've been seeing a lot of threads about more kills/deaths vs less kills/deaths on the boards lately. So, I've been shaping my general play style as a mid later around the general consensus that less is better, in this case. However, I'd appreciate guidance on whether or not I've taken that too far from a more experienced, higher elo player (For less exposition, skip to the 4th paragraph).
This conflict arose my last game as Diana mid (built like an assassin, like most). I was leaning against
, so I played more defensively- picked up crystalline flask and focused more on cs than on poke. I ended up getting an early landing kill, and later roamed our struggling bot, picking up a few kills and assists there. By that time, I was probably ~2/0/1 and our adc
was ~1/3/1.
From that point on, I picked up a couple kills during the transition to mid game and helped secure a couple dragons. Our ashe was picking herself up, but was overly aggressive against the enemy Jinx and usually traded 1/1 before dying. By that time, mid was pushed to its base turret and I was focusing on protecting bot's surviving one. Under turrets I'd stick to engages, but I was careful otherwise as per the enemy jungler,
.
The real problem was in endgame team fighting, which consisted of me, our support nautilus and ashe patrolling the mid nexus turret, running away when the enemy engaged, and then turning to fight once a safe distance away from the turret (as most low elo teamfights do, I'd imagine). Anyway, I was very defensive, retreating from most conflicts in order to potentially guard our untouched mid turret, however naut and ashe decided to fight in what was usually a 4v2. Sometimes they'd win (Ashe got a triple and quad kill from this stage), and sometimes they'd lose. When they'd lose, the Ashe would tell me I should have engaged in that fight, and that we would have won.
But here's the kicker for me- I did engage twice, and both times I was assaulted by an ulting fiddlesticks, who chunked me for 3/4 of my hp. I was saved both times by my Zhonyas and flash.
So here's my problem-should have I engaged, maybe swinging a losing teamfight in our favor and maybe getting killed by the fidd and further feeding him with shutdown gold, or was I right in avoiding a potentially deadly and outmatched fight in favor of defending the mid turret? By the end of the game, I was 4/0/8 and ashe was 21/12/5. I'm fairly new to the game, so I really don't know. I'm not afraid to engage and if I was wrong I was wrong, honesty is appreciated.