man, you are making sense. a very rare thing on the boards. you got my respect ; )
and @ BluePolarizer: the higher the elo, the less mistakes people make and gameplay changes. for example, everything you do can be wrong in diamond. like, you dont make "more mistakes" but your basic gameplan can allready be considered a mistake.
everything you can teach him from your own experience is only correct until a certain elo and then falls apart, so the most important skill in league is the skill to learn by yourself.
for example, my favorite lesson i always give people i coach: in every situation, make a simple decision of what you will do and then follow it 100%.
for example, you get ganked and you have the choice to flash and survive or not flash and bet everything on you being able to dodge that lee sin Q.
both of these decisions are viable and which one is better depends on the situation and your experience so its absolutely okay to make any of them.
now what many people do is they decide not to "waste" flash but do try and dodge. now they get hit by the Q and then flash, or flash after the second Q, let lee sin W to them and kill them so they now truly wasted flash.
another example of a thing many people do: i call it "fucking around". stop "fucking around" ever. you know this situation where you waste time, be it two seconds, to fire another skillshot at a jungler who just failed a gank on you or shooting that extra auto attack at the enemy laner who is farming under his tower or having a slow dance around a jungle camp with the enemy jungler in his jungle.
those are examples of situations where people are "fucking around": they are not doing some specific thing like attacking or running away but they are instead switching between different possible actions and in the end doing nothing.
you all experienced that: rengar ganks you, fails and you walk away while he tries to chase you but you get to safety while he turns around to walk away. now you turn around too to fire that auto attack at him and he just happened to have stepped into a brush warded by you (because you had vision, you kinda didnt mind), turns around, jumps you and kills you. there are millions of situations like that and you all have them plenty times every single game. watch any replay of yourself and see where you fuck around and how you accomplish nothing with it.
if you analyze every single action of yours and think about the potential benefit versus the risk versus the potential punishment, fucking around always includes the risk of dying in some way, even if 3 people have to simultaneously flash at you to accomplish that, while at the same time you have no realistic way to kill 2 or more people or objectives.
mostly, this is the difference between dealing 100 damage to rengar and dying to him for free.
NEVER fuck around ever. make clear decisions on what you gonna do. you decide not to flash and die for it? cool, well played. i respect that. you flash instantly and live? nice. honored.
you see an enemy jungler on a ward and instantly run? an ally just pinged red pings near your location 3 times? better run instantly. getting that one minion or hitting that one zap is not worth it.
if a player manages to stop fucking around ever, he will be on at least diamond level. THEN you can start teaching him stuff like animation canceling and other bullshit.