The all powerful mute button
I'm a guy who doesn't take derogatory and negative comments well. I usually would reply back, and in a not so nice way. However, I've found one thing helped me a lot.
Often people don't know how to use the mute button properly but I hope this tip helps. It's helped me a lot. I usually never mute anyone, UNLESS... and ONLY unless they say something which makes makes me lose my level head and want to type back. So that means no you do not mute everyone at the beginning of the game. For example, a conversation like this...
Player 1: GTFO my lane ping ping ping ping Me thinking: (What did I do? I'm only last hitting cs that he's missing out on anyway since he's at base) What I want to say: What's your problem? asshole What I do instead: Mute him and focus on game
Mind you, it's not that big a deal when someone says that but sometimes you're under lots of pressure and on top of that you have someone randomly cussing and swearing at you. Most people don't react too well. Anyway, If I said "What's your problem? asshole". I wasted time typing that which is completely irrelevant to the game AND I've just created tension on our team. Also, I'm not focusing on the game anymore but rather on player 1 and his doucherey-ness.
Another example:
Thresh: Wth are you doing? You're supposed to be doing ...and .... and.... Me thinking: (He hasn't landed any hooks. He doesn't even know how to trade. He doesn't even focus the adc in trades...) What I want to say: (ALL THOSE THINGS AND MORE!) What I do if he keeps continuing: Mute him and focus on game
If I said all those things, we would have just been arguing each other and BOTH our plays would have suffered greatly. I would have also added more unnecessary tension.
I gurantee you this will increase your chances of winning. I'm proud to say that even my last ranked game yesterday where our mid goes Zillean (I didn't think much of it at that time but I saw his history with that champ and he hardly played it, and oh boy when he did....he didn't exactly do too well). He gave first blood to an easily avoidable jungle gank. Our jungle was controlled by a decent lee on the other team right from the start. Our top starts cussing at him. I tell him to chill. He continues and so I mute him. Anyway few minutes in the game, our thresh is playing aggressively and he's at 40% health. They have the better matchup and are at 80% hp roughly. I do 1 "danger ping" on him and he tells me to "STOP ******* PINGING!" I got pissed. 1 Ping for your own good and you say that? I decide to mute him. Now, the other two people who are not muted are saying things and I decide to eventually mute those two as well. Mind you, I've NEVER muted my whole team before. I can proudly say that I kept a level head through it all.
This is all because of the all-powerful mute button. Becasue of it, we actually had a chance even though my whole team was broken. I was able to concentrate and I eventually had the potential to carry. Sadly though, from our top-lane's gameplay I could tell he gave up and I'm assuming there was world war II flame war in chat Anyway, I had the potential to carry but Nasus decided to splitpush top knowing that all 5 of the enemy members were at our base trying to close out the game. This just shows you that even in such a broken team like this, there is still potential to win as long as you do your best and the mute button prevents anyone from hindering your best.
Oh and one more thing, this was my last series game which would have determined if I advanced or not. I didn't. :) What can you do? You win some. You lose some.