Playing When You're Being Punished, and How It's Hard to Reform
Okay, so I admit, I've had a rough week. I've had feeders, I've had trolls, and I've had lag. I've rage quit one or two games and just plain lagged out of a few more, and I wake up this morning to find I'm being punished by Leaver Buster. I also got a warning about Negative Attitude, so I figure the best thing to do is to simply play through my low priority games on a low profile. I queue up for ranked, wait the 5 minutes time, get my main and get into game. I inform the team that I want to focus, so I'll be muting all of them. I'm playing jungle, but I'm not planning to gank much anyway (as I'm Nunu) so I just start playing. My team gives up a double to the enemy jungler at 4 minutes, but I don't say anything. I wait until the jungler has backed and sneak drag, so it's a pretty decent trade. Then my top laner gets a kill and I say GJ to him, even though I can't hear his response.
I gank mid and top a few times, and pick up an assist in bot. Next drag comes around and I ping it a few times thirty seconds or so before, but no one comes. So the enemy team groups and I try to steal, die and lose the drag. I say in chat "Please group for next drag" and leave it at that, even though my bot lane was sitting there farming while the enemy team stormed me 4v1. (I didn't start drag, I was just warding, positioning and waiting for my team).
Anyway, we lose the next drag, bot goes 0/5 and 0/5, and we lose a few more team fights. At 20 minutes I just type out a surrender and the team votes against it. Getting annoyed, but still not saying anything because I want to reform my behavior and not get reported again, I keep playing. The enemy team gets a kill in mid and pushes up, and knowing that my presence isn't going to stop them from taking inhib I push out and take second bot tower. My team pinged for me to come help them but I ignored it (admittedly, that might be Refusal to Communicate on my part, but I don't think ignoring the one ping is worth a report).
Game goes on a little longer. They push to end after they kill my team and I don't bother going to defend. Game ends, I say a gg and go to the stats screen, where my top laner says he's reporting me. I get another bleep on my screen that says I've been reported for Negative Attitude, when I barely said 10 words to my team all game, all of them polite except "FF at 20". They were mad that I muted them at the beginning, that I didn't gank bot and help, and that I was ready to surrender at 20 when we were 13 kills, 2 drags, and an inhib behind (and I have 4 more low priority games to get through).
So, Lyte, if you're still around, tell me how to defend myself here. I mute, I resist the urge to flame and rage all game, I don't afk when my team keeps me prisoner in a game we've already lost. I played with the most toxic team that fed, refused to group for objectives, and voted down a surrender. And I didn't say ANYTHING to them. I still got reported. How do I avoid this? I want to reform, and it seems like flat out saying nothing (and rendering myself immune to any potential flaming in game so I don't retaliate) is the best way to do it, but that's its own section of reporting.