LF Duo, or atleast some tips ! (B2)

I've played league for quite awhile and ready to be successful, just don't know what im doing wrong. I mainly play jungle, top is my second preference but I'll willingly play any role needed.

I've read quite abit but have discovered it doesnt really matter how much i study, I feel like i'm just getting screwed by the people who just don't care, and it's not fair.

I feel like with my main champions, my win rates and kdas are good. I know that doesnt mean anything in bronze but atleast im trying.

That being said I've had to generally stop playing AP champs because I've discovered people in bronze have a hard time even taking towers effectively and if i can't push them down myself, im essentially screwed.

Dragon is another point I can't figure out. I will give typed notice on when it is respawning, sit there and ping and ping and maybe one person will come help. Usually after four of the other team has gathered our support will come up and start the dragon, so we can take damage from it until they decide to dive in. or they just get it for free, that also happens quite often. I dont feel like I can solo it because the enemy team usually has vision on it, or if i remove vision theyre on their way to put more.

I know solo que is always going to be a cess pool, but at what rank do people stop playing it like its call of duty and realize that things like towers and dragons are more important than chasing the enemy zed back to their base ?

countless times times I've seen our team kill 3-4 of them and then chase the last 2 until the others have respawned while I'm frantically pinging on objectives.

I guess what I'm asking for is either either some hints on how to (politely) mind control people into grouping at objectives, or maybe just a like minded duo partner who is also tired of watching their team throw any sort of lead you've built for them the second the enemy team starts grouping. Or a smurf that wants to carry me, that'd be fine at this point ^_^

Happy playing,