Errrm Not Really Sure If This Post Is errm Relevant haha >_< [Looking For Help I guess]

Sooo Ive played League since like the end of S4 and I placed Silver, this Season I placed Bronze but quickly worked my way back up to Silver (Piece of Cake Reallly :P) however this is where Ive seemed to hit a wall. I don't want to sound like I still have the low elo attitude... because I've realized that I make a lot of mistakes that contribute to my losses its not just my team but me as well. One of the biggest faults I have in solo Q is I can most of the time hold my own and do well be it in the Jungle or a lane though for Solo Q I find myself preferring the Jungle because I feel like I have the biggest chance of winning there, but I cant carry my team I mean i can go 13/4 but have no objs and while the kills are great for a gold lead if I cant use it to snowball my team Im not going to win and I understand this. That being said I really need to work on I guess trying to close the game out as fast as possible before my team manages to throw... or just makes bead decisions like face checking or engaging on bad fights etc etc... Ive tried split pushing but I feel like its not as effective as it could be because im often just trading the outer towers (where im pushing) for my middle towers sometimes inhib tower for their inhib but my team dies 4 v 5 so I dont really see it as worth... hmm this post sounds more like a rant at this point I think and thats not my aim... I guess what Im asking for is errrm like help, or advice maybe? Ive thought about finding a 5s team to play with and just not worrying about solo Q as much but im no treally sure how to go about finding one... haha my biggest problem I think is that I want to take this game seriously but I don't have any influences around me to help me grow. Most of the people I know that play this play it causally and dont care if they win or lose... but with it being the main game I play I just cant have that kind of attitude about it you know I really want to improve!

Thanks for taking the time to read this! IGN: Slyverwolf Skype: xxredwolfexx (I Think errm not entirely sure what name Im supposed to give to search me haha)