I'm not surprised, but disappointed nevertheless (Varus)
Wow, I thought Varus' update was really well done. I liked it a lot. However, it was no surprise that the people took to the board in masses, and a few choice posts made it to the top in particular, in order to protest the change. And not the change in general (integrating his story into that of the darkin), but that he was now portrayed as loving men.
I've read all the arguments, and without fail, they begin with something along the lines of "Before you start, I'm not homophobic..."
You're homophobic, and let me explain why.
Why are Valmar's (re: Varus') motivations for vengeance and revenge suddenly less because he's fighting in memory of his lost male lover rather than his wife and child?
You are implying that the strength of the male-female bond is greater, or that the bond of a male-child (which, from all we know, could have been entirely possible in the future for Valmar and Kai) is greater than the bond between two men. That's wrong, and that implication is homophobic. By saying that without a wife and child to lose, he loses he motivation as a spirit of vengeance, you're saying that now losing the love of his live, who was a man, falls short of that, that is it somehow less, which is just plain wrong. You're demonstrating your view that homosexual love is inferior to heterosexual / traditionally familial love, which is wrong.
He hasn't lost the core of his character, and I would argue that it's stronger now as a result of the sheer depth of story telling we were just given. I can understand (sorta) a sense of nostalgia for the extremely underdeveloped story that he had before, but the quality and quantity of what we have now is objectively better. What's the problem?

lore, her old is superior, declaring brash statements like "you are X" based on nothing but your predisposed assumptions, is not a way to make this issue better.