Generally speaking, I agree. I think there's this huge gaping divide between how the community is perceived and how we actually act, and it's actually really concerning. We as a community do occasionally go off the rails and start really becoming asses, but there is always a catalyst. Here are some examples:
With the Opeli incident in lore, for example, the issue wasn't necessarily what she said; it was the fact that the lore community had been neglected for literally years and the first real conversation from Riot about it was relatively flippant.
With the huge backlash in the announcement of Dominion a few years ago, the issue wasn't the release of new content; it was the fact Riot overhyped it (without giving any information as to the true intent) to the point of everyone thinking their fantasies about new feature additions were about to be fulfilled and Riot completely crushed all of that with the release announcement.
What do these and your examples have in common? They stemmed from one of two main factors:
- Riot making decisions with ineffective communication and/or disregard for community perception.
- Riot having long periods of ineffective communication followed by the dam bursting.
If we really look at this, these factors cause the same emotional response: Not feeling heard. Which big community backlash problems have happened that can't be directly attributed to this?
We've seen this happen in even relatively minor situations. There have been numerous threads in Boards Feedback where the community is desperate to talk with Riot about communication pathways, and whenever a Rioter happens to post in the thread things blow up. Why? Is it because the community just wants to drive Rioters away, or is it because people feel like it's their only chance to be heard so they dump their thoughts and feelings there?
This stuff really concerns me. It's as though so many people have no understanding of the situation, on both sides. Rioters have literally publicly said they are scared or nervous to communicate with us. This is not acceptable, both from Riot's perspective and ours.
The unfortunate thing is that this is incredibly difficult to discuss with Riot. The communications teams rarely, well, communicate on the Boards, and they are the only ones with the knowledge and expertise to have good dialogue in this regard. Vodmor, for example, came into a thread and created some good dialogue. When people started pouring out their concerns, however, he peaced out. I doubt it's because he didn't want to be there, but rather he can't accurately answer those questions because it's not within his purview. Why is the thread suddenly dead after that rather than someone who knows what they are talking about stepping in to address things?
Anyway, this got a bit ranty towards the end. TLDR: I care deeply about this community, but the lack of understanding we all have here is causing even more problems than the actions on both sides ever could. We need to be comfortable discussing things like communication with each other, and we can't do this if people just assume that the community is fucked.