I play with my oldest son, my cousins, and occassionally my wife (she can play some nice Ashe when I support dat). I play Minecraft with all three of my boys. We use comparisons between video games and real life to improve lesson learning, like staying away from cliffs while mountain climbing, never roaming the jungle alone as a squishy (take a brother or friend with you when you go some place), or that the game is not about kills, it is about objectives (work together to accomplish things instead of seeking your own glory). My mom was very much anti-gaming (back in the 80s and 90s), but my dad sometimes plays Minecraft now, it gives him an opportunity to talk about computer programming with my son.
For those parents who are anti-gaming, read the following article:
http://www.youthdigital.com/blog/6-surprising-benefits-of-playing-video-games
The blog also has many other interesting articles on other benefits of learning tech skills and gaming for kids. Yes, they are selling their programming and gaming development classes, but they site serious psych and sociology research. Plus, their courses are legit, my 8 year old can program servers in Java and develop his own 3d movies. Video games have my kids asking to stay up late to do school work (we homeschool using computer based curriculum). Game on dudes (and dudettes)!