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I feel so hurt..

Muten Shensei·2/13/2018, 3:00:03 AM·3 votes·418 views

I've never felt so abused. A top player (note I was our jungler), got ganked a few times, and started violently abusing me with his/her words. I'm shocked, and am honestly hurt. I understand it's ranked, it's gold (so it's moderately hard), I'm doing my best, but I don't think they are.. There are wards, precautions, you need to understand that I can't always be there. I mean I muted them asap, but it's painful, I can still feel the rage. They would constantly try to take my camps when they had a chance too. I mean I'm not one to get easily offended or tilted but this was different, he/she was different. I don't I know how to deal with that, makes me want to go play a single player game or something. Towards the end, I helped this ragaholic top laner get like a triple, but I was so tilted, and so underfarmed; my performance just dropped; so we honestly I think lost because of me. On top of all of that, they kept pinging my icon (alive alive alive) because they know that would tilt me more or something. Of course I reported, of course I muted, but in the end of the day, I feel bullied, and I'm depressed. I think I will take a break from league.

5 Comments

Hauling Ashe2/13/2018, 3:15:50 AM3 votes

Take a break, go outside, call a friend (Yeah, phones have this voice speaker thing.), and come back to League tomorrow and chill in some normals. Mute all pings and chat. Enjoy yourself.

Don't play ranked while you're tilted. [slayer-jinx-catface]

TheEvilQueen1352/13/2018, 3:11:48 AM2 votes

do not blame yourself for the loss. if people want to win they should work together and not play the blame game. i've been bullied over this game myself and it was by a real life "friend". people get way too competitive and abusive sometimes with this game and try to make at least one person feel like they're at fault when really the abuser is doing that because they know they(the abuser) is at fault.

i would suggest taking some time from league or at least from ranked. if you still want multiplayer then guild wars 2 is free now and titan quest and divine divinity original sin are both single player with optional multiplayer co-op

U GOT WRECKT LOL2/13/2018, 4:27:47 AM2 votes

Man up and stop being so sensitive and easily offended. As a jungler you should always mute your top laner, and ignore any suggestions from your team, just do what you think gives you the best chance to win.

fuzzbucket012/13/2018, 4:32:14 AM2 votes

I feel you bro. I was silver in preseason, but Riot's update that caused people to be placed lower in ranked this season placed me in bronze. As a jungle main I agree that people flame and harass in low elos for not helping them when they don't make an opportunity. Jungling is probably the most complicated goal of all because you have to look at lanes and assess how they are doing and if you can help them. In one game I helped our top laner take the enemy top lane down to their t3 tower by the 10 minute mark and my bot and support flamed me for it. As a jungler you can't really carry games until late game, but most people ff if they are losing by 20 minutes. So I am playing casual now until I have laning figured out (because I've really never laned) or find a friend or someone else who can carry me out of bronze.

Just incase anyone looks at my rank, in preseason when I was s4 I was able to climb with a winrate of around 60-65% and was almost at s3 by the end of preseason. In bronze because people ff so early and I can't carry early on my winrate is close to 0%. I also don't have high mastery in any champs (my current highest is mastery 3). But the fact still remains that I was able to climb in silver and not in bronze. In silver people play the entire match almost all the time, in bronze people give up really early if they are losing. One instance where we turned around a game we were losing I was Sona support (2nd or 3rd time playing Sona support) and we were down to our nexus and the enemy team was down to t3 towers in all lanes. We got 2 aces and won the game and our nexus only had 1000 health at the end.

ModPeriscope2/13/2018, 5:05:02 AM2 votes

That's tough. Some games will be worse than others. Every defeat is a lesson. I've definitely been the worst on my team recently. It's never a good feeling, regardless of your teammates' reactions.