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Hollyvvood··72 votes·2,604 views

To the top laner who taught me, rather than ridiculed me.

I have been playing league for about seven months. I can honestly say that I am terrible at the game; however, League has become a part of my daily routine. I love the team tactics, fast paced action, and different outcomes based on the smallest decisions. League has been one of the most rewarding games I have ever played. Unfortunately it has also been one of the most hurtful experiences. I think we have all been there when it comes to toxic people. Folks picking on you because you did poorly in a match. Or your team ridiculing you because you fed. We all have those matches.

But onto the real point of this post, I played a game awhile back with a top laner who's main role was Marksman (which is what I was playing). Almost immediately I began to feed the enemy team because (as stated before) I'm terrible at the game. My support left me and went mid because I caused him to die a few times as well. The support and jungler began calling me names and ridiculing my skills (the common toxic person crap).

After we had finished the laning phase. I had lost 2 bot lane turrets, and was defending my inhibitor trying to get farm. Our top laner decided to come bottom and help me push. As we played he always alerted me when to back off or push lane. He never took my farm and never left my side. Some would say this was unintelligent as he was far more valuable to the team than I was. He had taken both the first top and middle turrets alone. As we pushed lane and defended, I noticed something, he never said a world. He simply pinged and played. By the end of the match; we had lost, but not by a lot. With the help of the top laner I was able to make a substantial come back having a just under 1/1 kill/death ratio.

In the end, the support and jungler flamed me, asking the other team to report me for feeding. The top laner then sent me a friend request. I was expecting to get a private message about how much I sucked, instead I got a message saying something along the lines of,

"Hollywood, don't worry about if you did bad or not, there is always room for improvement. I main ADC. While playing Quinn make sure to hop in and out of battle and stay on the move, as she is squishy and will melt under the enemy mage or marksman. Pick your targets wisely. Rather than focusing the tanks, target the mage or marksman. You do a lot of damage to them if you have built properly. Finally, don't listen to those people who say you suck. This is a game and everyone who plays has to learn one way or another. Just keep practicing. Also, you might try support instead. Your play style is pretty passive, which works for champions like soraka and sona. Anyways, GLHF."

Now these weren't the top laners exact words but they are fairly close to what he said. And because of him, I now main support and have seen my game play improve dramatically.

So to that top laner that gave me advice, To the top laner who helped me out when I was failing and nobody wanted to help, to the people I have met who are like that top laner and make League a more enjoyable experience for the rest of us...

Thank you

34 Comments

MasterSomething13 votes

I main top/jung/mid and this is kind of inspiring to do. Probably the most advice I've ever giver boils down to two things:

  1. Telling a player who's having a bad game to not be hard on himself, we all have bad games
  2. Telling enemy Nasus to not be so aggressive with his Q.
CosmicKiwii4 votes

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MasterSomething12 votes

Can't wait for your "unjust" permaban thread coming up then.

Oops5 votes

i think its a joke?

I hate my ADC9 votes

Suicide isn't a joking matter

Rikirie2 votes

Why not.

Hedgehog Hustler2 votes

Why not isn't a joking matter.

Wimbledofy2 votes

the joke was that he actually wouldn't do it. it's not that he would say it to someone as a joke.

I hate my ADC1 votes

Doesn't change the fact that "Suicide" is included in the joke.

Wimbledofy2 votes

We're playing a game in which there is a lot of killing, even suicide (kalista basically makes someone take their own soul to help them with their vengeance.) If it's okay to be used in a story, why isn't it okay to be used in a joke in an ironic way?

I hate my ADC1 votes

Because a story isn't a joke? Because there is tons of murder, racism, homophobia, etc. in tons of games, is it a reason to make inappropriate jokes on a public board?

Also, there was nothing funny about his joke even if we ignore the fact he used suicide in it.

Wimbledofy2 votes

And I'm asking WHY. Why is it inappropriate? Are you saying it's never okay to use anything related to suicide is a joke, but it's okay for a story to use it to make it more interesting?

The guy's joke was that he says something toxic, says he tells someone toxic to stop being toxic, then he says something toxic again. He just happened to use "kill urself" as the toxic phrase. He was just being ironic. Suicide wasn't really what mattered.

Also what if I were to tell you that hating isn't a joking matter? (since your name is pretty much a joke about hating someone) Why is it wrong? well because a story isn't a joke.

PixTron2 votes

Ironically...

nightsharks3 votes

You can NEVER be too aggressive with your Q!!!!!

MasterSomething8 votes

Miss cannon minion Miss another cannon minion Take a full Darius combo Feed 5 kills

Sentinos4 votes

That's always my Nasus vs Darius Matchup scenario. Every DAMN game.

.......................except I'm the Darius.

invisiblecat16 votes

I sometimes do the same, but when the person who is not doing well decides do argue back then I just ignore, otherwise I would help most of the time. Also what champion was that person playing?

Hollyvvood2 votes

Guy was a riven player (wasn't expecting that right?)

Astôlfo2 votes

inb4 the "wow you fotm quinn player you suck" comments Glad to hear about your story like that. I honestly don't care what champion people play. If you want to play it, go for it.

I mean, do they expect everyone to be good with a champ they're new to? And to those who go say practice against bots, that doesn't help since bots have no actual intelligence, don't counterplay, don't counterbuy, and react to you either that much specifically. So… playing in Normals PVP sort of is the best way to learn.

Best of luck to you learning Quinn! ^^

Nik Nikerson2 votes

It seems weird, but every time I start a new account, my favorite part is helping new players get better. I'm certainly no pro, but I at least have a grasp of the basics, and passing that knowledge onto others feels nice. People really appreciate a kind word and some constructive advice. And sometimes it's all they need to get better.

JerulEon2 votes

I really like these threads with inspiring stories about how players in the community make this game a better experience. Honestly, it makes me want to not flame as much and be a more compassionate person to teammates. Nice post!

Draven Wun Trick2 votes

truly inspiring. thank YOU for posting this

Axis the Dragon2 votes

Unless you're Malphite, and you're losing 0/7 to a Sion top, while Malzahar mid is 8/x. The flame is totally, 100% ok. You need to git gud or git out. How do you even feed with Malphite anyway?? Like damn. Don't even play ranked, dude.

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I was the Malphite. :c

ModWulf Helhammer1 votes

Bravo to him!

And if you need any tips with Quinn ADC, hit me up. She's my main ADC and I've been playing her since mid season 4

DartFeld1 votes

Those people are the best. I still remember a Yi from when I was new. The enemy was chasing me down lane and I went into the bush where he was recalling. I got him killed :P he was mad, said something like "wtf, I was oom why'd you bring them to me?" told him I was new and didn't really know what I was doing yet. he was completely cool with it after that. I also had no idea what oom meant at the time, so he filled me in on that too.

rtbf2256182411 votes

If you like playing passively and protecting people, you can also try Janna - the queen of disengage.

Hollyvvood1 votes

Thanks for the tip :) I tried her recently for the first time and I really enjoy playing her.

rtbf2256182411 votes

If you need any further advice, be sure to ask. I have over 2k games on her.

Hollyvvood1 votes

Yeah actually, I'm trying to figure out when the best time for her Ult is because I know the heal isn't big but the knock back is a game changer.

When would you recommend using it?

rtbf2256182411 votes

It's for 2 things. Disengaging (primarily) or engaging.

You use it when someone is in trouble or just to get an advantage in a fight by staggering the opponent and healing your allies at the same time. You have to keep in mind the maximum stagger range so you won't push them away so they can escape instead. Just try to stun them. Note:This is a highly skilled technique but you can also chase people by using your ult to stun them and use other abilities to follow up with cc. Try not to push him farther away instead.

You can engage by flashing in front of someone and ult. Mind the angle though so he won't be pushed near an escape path he could flash away to.

Best opportunities to engage is when you're ahead or when you're outnumbering the enemy.

Hollyvvood1 votes

Okay, thanks or the tips, I tried the flash ult in a normal match, it payed off because we were chasing a DrMundo to ACE their team. When I did it he flew back into our Riven and Azir who shredded him. I can also understand the disengage. I did it multiple times to save the riven who got in over her head. Over all my second game on Janna was a loss but I feel I did great with a 1/7/28 KDA.

Thank you for the pointers

rtbf2256182411 votes

Good job. The score is really okay too. Try to have at least half assists of your team's kills. I mean if your team has 20 klls try to have at least 10 or 9 assists by that. It's the standard i have. :)

MachineCaliber1 votes

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